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“Train up a child in the way they should go, and even when they are old
they will not turn from it.” Proverbs 22:6
Kindness




Diligence                          Perseverance




        Honesty              Attentiveness
 Pray  for your child
 Teach specifically
 Model
 Reward
   • With praise!
   • With prizes!
 Kindness
  • What is it? What does it look like?
 Praiseevery time you possibly can
 Have the word stay up around your class
  or home
 You know they have it in their heart and
  head when…
In….
 • Books
 • In your own speech and actions
 • In board games
 • In videos or TV shows
•Our family is a Team!
        (Team Urban)
  •God and the four of
                     us!
         • The Urbans
        always… give
because we believe it
 is better to give than
                receive
         •The Urban’s
   always… go above
   and beyond what is
             expected.

          •WHAT ARE
TRADITIONS you are
 using to build a team
         of character?
 It   isn’t about the game, it’s about the
              people in the game.
 Chores   and responsibilities
 Games
 Who   is your closest neighbor? Your sibling!
 He  washed the disciples’ feet
 There is a humility that needs to be taught
 Affirm what the world doesn’t
 J.O.Y.   – Jesus First, Others Second, You
  Last
 Everyone is a winner when they obey!
 “A fool gives vent to his anger but a wise
  man keeps himself under control” Proverbs
  29:11
 “Be kind and loving to each other”
  Ephesians 4:32

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Raising Kids with Character

  • 2.
  • 3.
  • 4. “Train up a child in the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.” Proverbs 22:6
  • 5. Kindness Diligence Perseverance Honesty Attentiveness
  • 6.
  • 7.  Pray for your child  Teach specifically  Model  Reward • With praise! • With prizes!
  • 8.  Kindness • What is it? What does it look like?  Praiseevery time you possibly can  Have the word stay up around your class or home  You know they have it in their heart and head when…
  • 9. In…. • Books • In your own speech and actions • In board games • In videos or TV shows
  • 10. •Our family is a Team! (Team Urban) •God and the four of us! • The Urbans always… give because we believe it is better to give than receive •The Urban’s always… go above and beyond what is expected. •WHAT ARE TRADITIONS you are using to build a team of character?
  • 11.  It isn’t about the game, it’s about the people in the game.
  • 12.
  • 13.  Chores and responsibilities  Games
  • 14.  Who is your closest neighbor? Your sibling!
  • 15.  He washed the disciples’ feet  There is a humility that needs to be taught  Affirm what the world doesn’t
  • 16.  J.O.Y. – Jesus First, Others Second, You Last  Everyone is a winner when they obey!  “A fool gives vent to his anger but a wise man keeps himself under control” Proverbs 29:11  “Be kind and loving to each other” Ephesians 4:32