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2. HOW TO MAKEYOUR LIFESWEETER

4. when I’m travelling on a bus and the sun is high in the sky. I can hardly contain the joy I feel.

5. when I walk into a store and someone doesn’t hold the door open for me. Well that makes me feel sad

6. I feel like I have to become as horrible as the people I encounter or I will be squashed.

7. I feel nothing but love for the kindness I see in others.

9. I feel stupid for trying to be a nice person.

10. I feel sad because no matter how nice I try to be some people mistrust me.

11. I get the feeling that I’m out here alone and all I desire is to find people who understand how I feel.

12. I wish I could comfort you and make plans to change things for the better.

13. I forget and go into myself for protection.You need to remember that a closed heart receives neither joy or pain. When you acknowledge there are no safe places? Would you choose to be pain free and feel nothing or would you choose ‘aliveness’ understanding that you gain love, laughter and a big spoonful of joy. Be nice

15. We all demand love. We manipulate, we bully, we cry and we tease. Yet, it evades some of us because we either. 1 Don’t recognise it when it appears 2 Are not prepared to make ourselves vulnerable enough to accept it If you desire love then you have to know that the jealous, possessive, feelings you may have are not a true indication of it’s existence. Love does not come from insecurityconcentrate on making your gift to someone manipulation free, True love knows no fear they cannot co-exist together.

17. Give hugs daily to your friends, pets and family it helps to foster love for yourself and for them.

18. Become more self interested in your spiritual well being. You don’t have to be religious to understand that life is a wondrous thing and we don’t have all the answers.

19. Create your own belief system based on love

20. Keep your desires simple and when they bear fruit be thankful.

21. Understand that every human desire that is based in goodness is always delivered.THERE IS ALWAYS HOPETHERE ISALWAYS LOVE

22. LET GO OFFIGHTING OTHERSIT WILL NOT BRINGYOU THE PEACE YOU SEEK.

23. LISTEN WITH YOUR HEART When you understand that you don’t have to have all the answers. Letting go is the action that serves you best. I have found that when I just believe everything is going to be fine, it often is. When you understand that you are born to enjoy your life and it isn’t the joyless adventure of toil and survival that some would have you believe. Then you’ll see things will become increasingly easy for you. I believe that what people call God is simply the energy of good manifested here for us to live happy lives. When this is not aimed for by us. We live the misery people fight so hard to avoid.

25. You cannot help but become grateful for the opportunity to nurture it. You’ll buy flowers. Feed the birds even wanting to garden for pleasure not as a chore.

26. When you notice you’ll want to be away from other humans and sit for a very long time on a sun bathed rock in the middle of the ocean.

27. You’ll become more interested in organic food and you’ll want to nurture your body, friends and family healthily.

28. You’ll watch documentaries and read books to help you become more informed about how you might help our planet.

29. When you notice, all the annoying things that got you down initially will pale into insignificants.A happy life is not complicated to achieve, be thankful for what you have, praise the people you love and do not expect to receive love from the people you give it to. If you desire more love it will come to you . Appreciate the blessings from others that are given to you freely daily, understand that love is always a ‘free’ give.

30. NOBODY HAS AN EASY EXISITENCEWE ALL GO THROUGH TROUBLES, AND WE FEEL STRESSED SWEET

32. Because you’ll know that perhaps it isn’t as difficult to live a happy existence when involved in difficult circumstances

33. Because you’ll have read so many books and watched so many films and realised there are many solutions. The ones that work best are often the simplest.

34. Because you’ll know the love you seek may not live in your neighbourhood.

35. Because you see and understand rich or poor we are all trying our best to cope with the lives we have

36. Because you know that all our lives are precious and sweet and some have just forgotten that factEverybody at one time or another closes themselves off. They withdraw from friendships and family because the pain of knowing you are not loved as you desire to be or, caring too much for people who do not show their caring for you breaks your heart. These feeling are blessings and your s to own.

37. ASK YOURSELF 1 Can you love your life and self enough to learn from the pain you receive? 2Do you understand that when you are hurt by others? They give you one of the greatest gifts to bestow, forgiveness. 3Do you appreciate that when you deliver pain to someone else you give them the gift of a lesson? 4Do you understand that when you give someone a lesson you invite more pain into your life? Once you accept life has to involve pain. It is much easier to decide how much pain you can receive.One cannot be happy without knowing what it is to be sad. It is clever to understand that love cannot exist without painas day has no value without night.

38. APPRECIATE THAT YOURLIFE IS A PRECIOUS VESSEL IN WHICH TO POUR GOOD THINGS. When we give and care for each other. We are in fact caring for ourselves. Giving a damn is the most self interested thing you can do for yourself

39. REMEMBER TO KICK BACK AND ENJOY EACH DAY YOU MIGHT NEGLECT DON’T YOU KNOW YOUR LIFE IS SWEET? NOTICE THAT YOUR LIFE IS.