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I know what it feels like to have a girl you really like, that you really
connected with, and then you don't know how to get her phone
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That's a terrible feeling, and I never want that to happen to you again.
What I've got for you here are the exact details of getting a girl's
contact info in a smooth, comfortable, fool proof way. This excerpt is
straight out of my book How to Make Girls Chase, which hundreds of
men around the world have already used to great success.
This excerpt of the full book was made to answer one of the most
important questions that guys have. If you enjoy it, I'll give you a link
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We'll pick up right in the beginning of the chapter entitled "Dating
and Follow Up," in this, your Unconventional Guide to Phone Number
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unscheduled. That girl a guy had a great connection with when he
met her never heard from him again. She probably ended up
wondering what happened – in fact, I’ve had girls I’d met insist that I
call them, because, they said, men always took their phone numbers
then never called. Other women have said how guys canceled dates
with them using some of the lamest excuses you’ll ever hear. Men will
work hard to get phone numbers and set up dates, then fail to follow
up or make things happen. This tends to occur when men just don’t
know what they’re doing, and give up before even giving it much of a
shot.
Let’s make sure this doesn’t happen with you. The aim of this section is
to equip you with all the tools you’ll need to be getting in touch with
women you’ve met, and setting up your next meeting with them.
GETTING HER INFORMATION
If you’ll notice, this sub chapter is not titled “Getting Her Number”, for
a very good reason: you always want to avoid using the word
“number”. Why’s that?
• “What’s your number?”
• “Can I get your number?”
• “Can you give me your number?”
These are the standard man asking for woman’s follow up
information lines that the majority of men use. Here’s what you
should notice about these lines:
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1. They are all compliance requests
2. They all use the word “number”
Thing is, by the point in the conversation where things have
supposedly progressed well enough that a man and a woman are
going to meet again, the last thing a man should have to do is ask her
if he can have her follow up information. It should be a foregone
conclusion. Since he phrases it as if it isn’t, he makes himself look and
sound weak, and has also puts the woman into the position of needing
to make a decision.
Except for situations in which it benefits you and the seduction, do not
put women in the position of having to decide. Women tend to follow
the path of least resistance, and if the case is anything other than that
she simply cannot wait to see you again, it’s going to be easier for her
to decide on inaction (“No”) rather than action (“Okay”). Women look
to men to lead and decide; furthermore, if she clearly likes you, she is
going to assume that you’ll take her information. If a man she had
previously assumed would just take her information then asks her if
he can have it, she’s going to have to pause and reassess her
assumption: “Hmm… can he have it? That’s a good question!”
Don’t ask. Also, don’t use the word “number” – she’s heard that word a
thousand times before, tied to a weak, needy question that forces her
to do mental labor and come to a snap decision on a man who is
putting social pressure on her to say okay. In other words, when a
woman hears anything akin to, “Can I get your number?” she
automatically recoils. It’s like hearing police sirens if you’ve been
pulled over for speeding recently; even if they aren’t for you, you still
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have an automatic negative reaction to them, because of your past
experiences.
Having women react in an automatic negative manner to you is
definitely something we want to avoid!
So, when you’re wrapping up a conversation with a girl you like, have
a standard follow up line something like one of these:
• “Let me grab your contact info before I forget.”
• “Let’s trade cells so we can grab some food another time.”
• “Let’s stay in touch. How do I get hold of you?”
You can also use one of these mid interaction – and actually, in my
opinion that’s the best time to do it. Make it a point to always grab
contact information on a high point – it’s an easy snap decision for the
girl to say, “Sure!”
Sometimes men will wait for the conversation to die, and then, as it’s
circling downward, they’ll say, “Okay, well, I’m going to go, but let me
grab your number first!” She’s already feeling awkward and unexcited
with this man – what are the chances she’ll want to see him again?
Even if she feels too much pressure to say no, and gives him her
number anyway, she’s far less likely to respond when he calls or texts
her later.
Conversely, catch her on a high point, and you’re flying. So, after she’s
laughing and having a great time, you tell her, “We need to stay in
touch – let me grab your cell, before I forget.” Then get her number,
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call her phone, and continue on with the conversation as if nothing
had ever happened. This is the best way to do it.
Also, back to the point of calling her phone – absolutely necessary.
You want to always follow these steps:
• Put her in your phone – you do it, or have her do it
• Next, call her phone
• Then, have her save your number
This does a couple of things for you:
1. Seeing your number on her phone lets you know that you got
the right number – occasionally women will enter the wrong
number, either on purpose (if they don’t really want to keep
in touch) or by accident (if they typed in the wrong number,
or you did).
2. Seeing her answer and save your number will give you an
idea how serious she is about you. If she tells you she doesn’t
have her phone on her, you know she isn’t serious (every
woman carries her phone on her). If she takes her phone out
and says, “Yep, got it,” without saving you, she may or may
not be interested, but she gave you a real number, so you
know you have something to follow up on later. If she saves
your number, and makes sure she has your name spelled
properly, you’ll know she’s interested and wants to hear from
you again.
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You can also have her put you in her phone first, and then give you a
call so you’ll have her number. Either one works – just make sure one
of you has called the other.
There is one other advantage of
Grab a woman’s contact grabbing the number during a high
information on the high point of
a conversation – it’s much more point vs. during a low point.
natural than grabbing it at the Women will automatically associate
end, as most men do
things based on what kind of value
you’re following them up with – so the guy who asks for her contact
info when the conversation is dwindling is clearly offering the value
of keeping in contact with him to any woman he can talk to,
regardless of how lifeless the conversation. Then there is the guy who
asks following a high point, when there is laughter and good feelings
and interesting conversation. This guy communicates that he stays in
touch with people who bring good things into his life. Which guy do
you think a woman would want to stay in touch with more?
The last thing to keep in mind with grabbing contact information on a
high point is that there is a natural lull in the conversation following
the number swap. Most people are accustomed to contact information
exchanges coming at the end of a conversation, so the woman you’re
speaking with is naturally going to wonder if this means the
conversation is over now. You’ll need to take charge here and resume
the conversation yourself – you can do so by recalling an earlier topic
(“So anyway, you were telling me about…”) or by asking her about
something she hasn’t fleshed out yet (“So why did you move here from
London?”). By resuming conversation, you’ll relieve her of the social
pressure to end the conversation, and allow her to continue enjoying
talking to you. It’ll also reassure her that she made the right decision
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of giving you her number – a man with as much social grace as you
must surely be a good catch.
Other Kinds of Contact Information
There are other ways to keep in touch besides the phone, of course.
Some of them are:
• Email
• Social Networking
• Business Cards
Generally, if a woman offers you her business card, give it a quick
scan and take note of whether her mobile number is on the card. If so,
that’s all you need. If it’s just an office number, ask her if her mobile is
listed anywhere on the card – you can tell her you’d hate to bother her
at the office.
If she offers you her email, this can be because she travels frequently,
or it may be that she is simply more cautious when meeting new
people. It’s not quite as good as a phone number, but you can often
turn it into something productive. I have had women I ended up
having great encounters with off of nothing more than an initial email
– so don’t necessarily dismiss email outright.
If a woman offers social networking, on the other hand, it’s often a
polite decline on her part. While social networking can be something
you use in your interactions with women, it’s not typically an effective
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9. This wraps up this report. I hope you got a lot of actionable, practical
insights so you're never left in the dark after you really hit it off with a
great girl.
I want to be there to help coach you through all of the most important
parts of meeting beautiful women. For me the learning process took a
really long time. And I made a lot of painful mistakes. I want to help
you avoid those mistakes so that success comes as smoothly, easily,
and enjoyably as possible.
If you enjoyed this excerpt, I think you really owe it to yourself to go
check out what's in the rest of the book. It's jam packed with good
info, go see for yourself:
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Yours,
Chase Amante