THE VIBRANT RELATIONSHIP ŽIV ODNOS WORKING WITH COUPLES AND PARENTS DELO S PARI IN STARŠIDEVELOPING MENTALIZATION / ACKNOWLEDGING INTIMACY RAZVOJ MENTALIZACIJE/ DOVOLJENJE BLIŽINESLOVENIA June 2013 Kirsten Seidenfaden and Piet Draiby Centre for Relation Focused Therapy www.relationsterapi.dk

1. THE VIBRANT RELATIONSHIP
ŽIV ODNOS
WORKING WITH COUPLES
AND PARENTS
DELO S PARI IN STARŠI
DEVELOPING MENTALIZATION / ACKNOWLEDGING
INTIMACY
RAZVOJ MENTALIZACIJE/ DOVOLJENJE BLIŽINE
SLOVENIA June 2013
Kirsten Seidenfaden and Piet Draiby
Centre for Relation Focused Therapy www.relationsterapi.dk

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Mentalizing as the new focus for
therapeutic change
Mentalizacija kot nova osredotočenost
za terapevtske spremembe

3. KEY PROCESS
The Acknowledging Dialogue
KLJU NIČ PROCES
Dialog pripoznavanja

4. KEY CONCEPTS/ KLJU NIČ
KONCEPTI:
The Space/ Prostor
The Bridge / Most
The Encounter /Srečanje

5. ATTACHMENT
Emotional attunement and
mirroring
being
attentive and predictable
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NAVEZANOST
Čustvena uglašenost in
zrcaljenje
biti
pozoren in predvidljiv

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Ed Tronick: “Still face”
Attunement and affect regulation

7. Varno navezani otrok bo razvil
več kompetenc
Otrok, ki ni varno navezan, bo
razvil več preživetvenih strategij
The Securely attached child will
develop more competence
The Insecurely attached child will
develop more survival
strategies

8. Mentalizing
...or in plain
language:
Acknowledging
intimacy
- is a capacity we
can develop
throughout life
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Mentalizacija
...ali v navadnem
jeziku:
Pripoznavanje
bližine
- sposobnost, ki jo
lahko razvijamo
celo življenje

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MENTALIZING IS
- holding mind in mind
- the ability to see yourself from the
outside and others from the inside
MENTALIZACIJA JE
- držati um v umu
- Sposobnost videti sebe od zunaj
in od znotraj

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11. THE COGWHEELS AND THE
GEAR SHIFT
Breakdown and Restoration
of the
Acknowledging Intimacy
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ZOB ENIKI IN PRESTAVNIČ
PREMIKI
Zlom in obnova
pripoznane bližine

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14. KLJU NIČ
KONCEPTI:
Prostor
Most
Srečanje
KEY
CONCEPTS:
The Space
The Bridge
The Encounter

15. KEY
PROCESSES:
The Acknowledging
Dialogue
Mirroring
Acknowledging
Empathizing
KJU NIČ
PROCES:
Dialog pripoznanja
Zrcaljenje
Pripoznanje
Empatija

16. PREGLED
PROCESA
- Uvod
- Kar cenim
- Konflikt
- Otroški spomin
- Hrepenenje
- Sprejemanje in
dajanje darila
- Pripoznanje
HANDS-ON
PROCESS
- An introduction
- An appreciation
- The conflict
- The childhood
memory
- The longing
- Recieving and
giving the gift
- An appreciation

17. WRAP UP:
- so by drawing on
Psychodynamic
Neuroscientific
Systemic
&
Narrative tradition
We get to and
may use our
capacity to
MENTALIZE
Zaklju ekč :
- z naslonitvijo na
psihodinamske,
nevroznanost,
sistemske in
narativne tradicije
pridobimo in
zmoremo
uporabiti
kapacieto
MENTALIZACIJE