5. SMART Negotiation*
• Stay focused on your agenda and relationship
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
*SMART acronym by Gwen Taylor
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6. SMART Negotiation*
• Stay focused on your agenda and relationship
• Measurements matter
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
*SMART acronym by Gwen Taylor
Friday, May 31, 13
7. SMART Negotiation*
• Stay focused on your agenda and relationship
• Measurements matter
• Ask clearly and succinctly
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
*SMART acronym by Gwen Taylor
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8. SMART Negotiation*
• Stay focused on your agenda and relationship
• Measurements matter
• Ask clearly and succinctly
• Reiterate your contributions, redirect when
necessary
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
*SMART acronym by Gwen Taylor
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9. SMART Negotiation*
• Stay focused on your agenda and relationship
• Measurements matter
• Ask clearly and succinctly
• Reiterate your contributions, redirect when
necessary
• Time to discuss and follow-up. It’s a process.
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
*SMART acronym by Gwen Taylor
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12. Con.fi.dence - noun
• Firm trust, certainty
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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13. Con.fi.dence - noun
• Firm trust, certainty
• Do your employers trust you to do your job?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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14. Con.fi.dence - noun
• Firm trust, certainty
• Do your employers trust you to do your job?
• Do you trust your employers to hold up their end of
the bargain?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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15. Con.fi.dence - noun
• Firm trust, certainty
• Do your employers trust you to do your job?
• Do you trust your employers to hold up their end of
the bargain?
• Self-assurance from your appreciation of
your abilities and qualities
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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16. Con.fi.dence - noun
• Firm trust, certainty
• Do your employers trust you to do your job?
• Do you trust your employers to hold up their end of
the bargain?
• Self-assurance from your appreciation of
your abilities and qualities
• How do you value your work?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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18. The Most ConfidentYOU
• When are you the most confident?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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19. The Most ConfidentYOU
• When are you the most confident?
• How does she feel, look, walk, and
talk?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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20. The Most ConfidentYOU
• When are you the most confident?
• How does she feel, look, walk, and
talk?
• What can she do?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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21. The Most ConfidentYOU
• When are you the most confident?
• How does she feel, look, walk, and
talk?
• What can she do?
• Who inspires you? Why?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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22. The Most ConfidentYOU
• When are you the most confident?
• How does she feel, look, walk, and
talk?
• What can she do?
• Who inspires you? Why?
• What are your aspirations?
By Ji Eun (Jamie) Lee
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23. What She Wants She Gets
How? She asks for it!
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24. What She Wants She Gets
• What is success to you, professionally
AND personally?
How? She asks for it!
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25. What She Wants She Gets
• What is success to you, professionally
AND personally?
• What would you want more in life, if you
were certain you can get it?
How? She asks for it!
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26. What She Wants She Gets
• What is success to you, professionally
AND personally?
• What would you want more in life, if you
were certain you can get it?
• If you were to ask for it, what would be
possible in your life?
How? She asks for it!
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30. Your Bargaining Power
• What are your contributions?
• What is the economic value of your
contributions to your employer?
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31. Your Bargaining Power
• What are your contributions?
• What is the economic value of your
contributions to your employer?
• What are you getting for your contributions?
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32. Your Bargaining Power
• What are your contributions?
• What is the economic value of your
contributions to your employer?
• What are you getting for your contributions?
• Who else would pay for your services?
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35. KnowYourValue
• Ask for what you want based on your value
• Forget what’s fair
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36. KnowYourValue
• Ask for what you want based on your value
• Forget what’s fair
• Forget bare minimums
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37. KnowYourValue
• Ask for what you want based on your value
• Forget what’s fair
• Forget bare minimums
• What you’re offered, at least initially, is NOT
your value
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38. KnowYourValue
• Ask for what you want based on your value
• Forget what’s fair
• Forget bare minimums
• What you’re offered, at least initially, is NOT
your value
You don’t get what you deserve,
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39. KnowYourValue
• Ask for what you want based on your value
• Forget what’s fair
• Forget bare minimums
• What you’re offered, at least initially, is NOT
your value
You don’t get what you deserve,
you get what you negotiate.
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42. Questions
• Are you exceeding your work objectives?
• If so, how and by how much?
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43. Questions
• Are you exceeding your work objectives?
• If so, how and by how much?
• If not, what’s keeping you?
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44. Questions
• Are you exceeding your work objectives?
• If so, how and by how much?
• If not, what’s keeping you?
• Is this being communicated to your employers?
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45. Questions
• Are you exceeding your work objectives?
• If so, how and by how much?
• If not, what’s keeping you?
• Is this being communicated to your employers?
• Do you have a specific plan to bring
additional value to your company? Can you
articulate it?
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46. Questions
• Are you exceeding your work objectives?
• If so, how and by how much?
• If not, what’s keeping you?
• Is this being communicated to your employers?
• Do you have a specific plan to bring
additional value to your company? Can you
articulate it?
• What would be the additional benefit to
your employers?
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49. SetYourself Up For
Success
• Align your goals with company objectives
• Frame your asks as a mutual benefit
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50. SetYourself Up For
Success
• Align your goals with company objectives
• Frame your asks as a mutual benefit
• Make sure your goals are measurable and
achievable
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51. SetYourself Up For
Success
• Align your goals with company objectives
• Frame your asks as a mutual benefit
• Make sure your goals are measurable and
achievable
• If not, be prepared for BATNA
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52. Best Alternative To
Negotiated Agreement
• What can you do if negotiation fails and an
agreement cannot be reached?
• Are you willing to walk away from the table?
• Are you willing to leave this job?
• What other options do you have?
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54. Boost Bargaining Power
• Get inside your bargaining partners’ heads - what
are their dreams, hopes and fears?
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55. Boost Bargaining Power
• Get inside your bargaining partners’ heads - what
are their dreams, hopes and fears?
• Outperform beyond expectations
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56. Boost Bargaining Power
• Get inside your bargaining partners’ heads - what
are their dreams, hopes and fears?
• Outperform beyond expectations
• Make yourself indispensable
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57. Boost Bargaining Power
• Get inside your bargaining partners’ heads - what
are their dreams, hopes and fears?
• Outperform beyond expectations
• Make yourself indispensable
• Improve your BATNA - get another offer
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59. Real and Perceived Power
• What is your real power as an at-will
employee?
• ValueYou Bring to the Table
• BATNA
• Credentials, connections, etc.
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60. Real and Perceived Power
• What is your real power as an at-will
employee?
• ValueYou Bring to the Table
• BATNA
• Credentials, connections, etc.
• How can you improve your perceived
power?
• The Most ConfidentYou
• Communication style
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61. Consider the Whole Package
• Salary
• Benefits
• Long-term Incentive Compensation
• Short-term Incentive Compensation
• Something special
Add it up. How much $$$ is the total?
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63. Take Action
• Remember you negotiate at work everyday.
Make it count.
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64. Take Action
• Remember you negotiate at work everyday.
Make it count.
• Reach out to your network, people you
know.Ask them, would they pay for your
services?
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65. Take Action
• Remember you negotiate at work everyday.
Make it count.
• Reach out to your network, people you
know.Ask them, would they pay for your
services?
• Research your market rate. Dig a little
deeper.
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66. Take Action
• Remember you negotiate at work everyday.
Make it count.
• Reach out to your network, people you
know.Ask them, would they pay for your
services?
• Research your market rate. Dig a little
deeper.
• Take colleagues out to coffee. Is there internal
political stuff you don’t know about?
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67. Conversation Tips
• Assume Power - Be in control of the
conversation
• Direct the flow with diagnostic
questions (who, what, when, where, how
and why)
• State your goals and expectations
• Express excitement and gratitude or
disappointment - Be clear
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