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The Negotiation Dance

           Ali
          Anani
Negotiation is not about
correcting past experiences
Negotiation is about how to
make the future brighter and
    more permissible
How?
First, a quick reminder of
what negotiations is
A negotiation is an interactive
communication process to reach a
compromising solution between
conflicting parties.
The proof   ?
Gauge your
emotions when
somebody tells
 you take it or
   leave it
Such situations make
 the future look grim
Negotiations requires that
we keep a crack in the door
           open
Negotiation in the Kitchen
Negotiation in the Kitchen
But still
unhappy
solution- why?
                 They both needed an orange to finish their
                 recipes for the boss’s dinner. They reached
                     a compromising solution: to split the
                 orange into two halves with ½ for each one
.
Then they split the orange in
 half, and each went to his
corner to finish preparing his
             meal.
Throw
the peel
            One chef squeezed the juice
            from his half and threw away
                      the peel.
           The other chef did the opposite
               by keeping the peel and
Keep the
  peel      throwing away the ½ orange
Had they known the intension of
 needing the orange for would
  have generated a brighter
           solution
Thinking about it turns
about a problem of poor
communication
Differentiate between your position
and your interest as well as the
interest of the other party.
May be you have totally different
interests that do not conflict
Your position might be even
strengthened if you know about the
interest of your negotiating party
Communications help in
understanding the emotions and
feelings of your negotiating partner
in order to ensure that
understanding is accurate.
The negotiation
    dance

                     Like an orange if you
                  press too hard the orange
                    breaks and if too soft it
                      shall be squeezed
                  Do not break or squeeze
                   your negotiating partner
A good negotiator is a
    good leader
The common attributes of good
negotiators and leaders

  Common attributes of negotiators and leaders

       Aspiration for Win / Win conclusions to
  preserve the relationship

   Collaborative

  Persuasion oriented

  Take care of Interests

  Long-term oriented

  Communication skills

  Shared information

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