The document discusses how many men blame women when rejected instead of taking responsibility to improve themselves. It argues that studying seduction techniques is no substitute for actually practicing and gaining experience talking to women. To improve, men need to get experience approaching women without anger or frustration, and learn from both successes and failures, rather than making excuses.

2. It can be tough to be without a lady,
and try and not succeed.

3. One thing that humans are very, very
good at is blaming others.

4. No matter what people's shortcomings
are, we tend to point fingers.

5. For every finger you point, as the
saying goes, you've got three pointing
back at you.

6. Even Jesus said that before you point
out the dirt in somebody's eye, take
out the big pile of crud in your own.

7. Now, whether or not you believe Jesus
was real or just a metaphorical
teaching instrument, the point is that
the idea of people pointing fingers
when they should be taking
responsibility goes back to Biblical
times.

8. It comes out with guys looking for girls
like this.

9. Guy sees a girl.

10. He approaches her, and she's not
interested.

11. So instead of thinking about what he
could do better, he gets angry at the
girl.

12. If he does this a few times, pretty
much he hates women.

13. Go on any seduction forum and you'll
see that guys have NO PROBLEM
trying to become the most alpha and
eloquent member of the "he-man
women haters club."

14. But guess what?

15. Anger, frustration, and unhappiness
are the some of the WORST attitudes
you can have when meeting girls.

16. Sure, misery loves company.

17. Sure, guys hang out and bitch and
moan about how there's some secret
feminine conspiracy and all the
women are somehow "wrong" for not
liking them.

18. That may make you feel better.

19. It may protect your ego.

20. But it certainly won't create any desire
in any females.

21. The truth is that despite how many
blogs and gurus and goofs giving out
advice (ahem...) on game, most guys'
game absolutely sucks.

22. Somewhere along the line studying
game or complaining about women
became a substitute for actually
learning game.

23. Let's look at a sports analogy to make
this easer to understand.

24. Take two guys, Hector and Alfalfa.

25. Alfafa spends all his time in the library,
studying basketball.

26. He even spends a few thousand dollars
on a seminar with Lebron James.

27. He's watched thousands of
instructional videos on basketball.

28. Yet every time he shoes up the court,
he's intimidated.

29. He's always got a ready made excuse.

30. The ground isn't right.

31. The backboards aren't regulation.

32. The guys aren't really following the
rules.

33. Now let's look at Hector.

34. All he does is show up to the court,
and play.

35. At first he sucks.

36. People rag on him all day long.

37. But he has fun. He keeps playing.

38. He shows up when there's nobody else
there and practices.

39. Dribbling, inside shots, outside shots,
free throws, etc.

40. Pretty soon Hector is a respectable
player.

41. Nothing close to NBA quality, but he
can hold his own in a street game.

42. Now suppose Hector and Alfalfa have
a friendly one on one? Who wins?

43. Obviously, Hector is going to wipe the
floor with poor Alfy.

44. Here's some harsh wisdom.

45. It may be right, it may be wrong.

46. But just for fun, pretend and live your
life as if it were absolutely true.

47. If you aren't getting laid by gorgeous
women, your game sucks.

48. If gorgeous girls are begging you to be
in a relationship with them, your game
sucks.

49. What do you do?

50. Practice your game.

51. How do you practice?

52. By playing.

53. Why else is it called game?

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