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“ Plan B” Parenting with a Purpose ,[object Object]
My Family (Pamilyang Cruz ‘07)
My Children (Pamilyang Cruz ‘09)
I. The Family Today  Based on the Barney Song  
My Family’s Is Just Right For Me ,[object Object],[object Object]
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Kamusta tayo sa solo parenting? Paano  ako makakasigurado na tama ang pagpapalaki ninyo sa akin?
Introduction “ Filipino Consciousness” “ … He came that we might have life and have it more abundantly .” John 10:10 “ Healthy families will result to a healthy individuals, healthy communities, and a nation… kahit sole parenting”
I. Stages of Family Life  “Baitang ng buhay pagpapamilya”
Stages of Family Life
Phase of most parents ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Young Adulthood to Middle Adulthood
II. Parenting Styles ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Autocratic Parenting “Walang tanong-tanong” “ Tandaan mo  ha, anak  lang kita!
Autocratic Parenting ,[object Object],strict, controlling , order w/o freedom low initiative,  low self-esteem,  poor communication skills
Parenting Myths ,[object Object],Permissive Parenting “ Ibigay ang hilig” Negligent “pabaya ” “ Kung ayaw mong gawin ang assignment mo, sige lang laro na lang tayo.”  “ Bahala ka nalang sa buhay mo, ano paba ang magagawa ko?”
Permissive Parenting tolerant and lax freedom without order unlimited choices manipulative  irresponsible socially incompetent   Underachiever Self-Centered Poor moral values
A need for balance
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Democratic Parenting “ Itutuwid para sa hinaharap” “ Medyo kulang ang budget para  sa birthday mo, ano kaya pwede nating gawin?”
Democratic Parenting ,[object Object],Responsible  Confident Capable adults Self-Reliant Self-giving Socially competent Well-formed values
Aiming to be Democratic “Layunin” ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Summary Autocratic Democratic Permissive Order w/o Freedom Order w/Freedom Freedom w/o Order Dependent Resentful Rebellious Irresponsible Manipulative Demanding Confident Responsible Capable ROBOTS MONSTER BALANCED
III. Human Development “Baitang ng paglago” ,[object Object],[object Object],ERIK ERIKSON Crisis/ Stages
Developmental Stages of a Child Social Crisis Circle of Influence  Needs Infancy (0-2 yrs) Trust vs Mistrust Mother/ Caregiver Touch Early Childhood (2-3 yrs) Autonomy vs Shame Parents/ Family Establish Control Play Age (3-5 yrs) Initiative vs Guilt Playmates/Ext. Family Security & Affection School Age (6-12 yrs) Industry vs Inferiority School Community Develop self-confidence
Developmental Stages of a Child Social   Crisis Circle of Influence  Needs Adolescence 12-19 Identity vs Role Confusion Friends Allowed to develop own identity
IV. TEEN SITUATIONER
Personally Considered Wrong (in %) (Metro Manila) 0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 2000 2005 1992 Use forbidden drugs Cheat on boyfriend/girlfriend Sell or buy illegal drugs Take something w/o paying Sell oneself for sex Stay away from school/work Drunk driving Avoid paying taxes Marital infidelity Divorce/separation Look at porn material Hazing Cheat in school Use violence
Personally Considered Wrong (in %) cont’d (Metro Manila) 0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 2000 2005 1992 Smoke cigarettes Use sexually explicit language Sell porn material Pre-marital sex Gambling Phone/internet sex Getting drunk Race a car or motorbike Abortion Homosexual relationship Use a prostitute
Brain Development Maturation Occurs from Back to Front of the Brain Images of Brain Development in Healthy Youth (Ages 5 – 20) Blue represents maturing of brain areas Copyright © 2004 The National Academy of Sciences, USA Gogtay, N., Giedd, J.N., et al. (2004) Dynamic mapping of human cortical development during childhood through early adulthood Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 101 (21), 8174 – 8179
V. STAGES OF ADOLESCENTS
Three Stages of Adolescents ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Early Adolescent (Approximately 10-14 years old) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Middle Adolescent (Approximately 15-16 years old) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Late Adolescent (Approximately 17-21 years old) ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
The ABCs - Summary of Adolescents ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],Summary
Multiple Intelligences “Uri ng katalinuhan” ,[object Object],Artistic Musical Mathematical Linguistic
Multiple Intelligences ,[object Object],Kinesthetic Interpersonal Intrapersonal Natural
Uniqueness “Ang bawat bata ay may taglay na talino”   ,[object Object],Focus on developing the intelligence
Summary Find the   UNIQUENESS  “katangian” Acknowledge the  DIFFERENTNESS  “kaibahan” Celebrate the   SPECIALNESS  “espesyal”
Pagtatapos ,[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object],[object Object]
Our Greatest Treasure ... our Greatest Responsibility!
Building a Positive Relationship with Your Teens ,[object Object]

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Plan b parenting saint joseph 2010

  • 1.
  • 2. My Family (Pamilyang Cruz ‘07)
  • 4. I. The Family Today Based on the Barney Song 
  • 5.
  • 6.
  • 7.
  • 8.
  • 9. Kamusta tayo sa solo parenting? Paano ako makakasigurado na tama ang pagpapalaki ninyo sa akin?
  • 10. Introduction “ Filipino Consciousness” “ … He came that we might have life and have it more abundantly .” John 10:10 “ Healthy families will result to a healthy individuals, healthy communities, and a nation… kahit sole parenting”
  • 11. I. Stages of Family Life “Baitang ng buhay pagpapamilya”
  • 13.
  • 14.
  • 15. Autocratic Parenting “Walang tanong-tanong” “ Tandaan mo ha, anak lang kita!
  • 16.
  • 17.
  • 18. Permissive Parenting tolerant and lax freedom without order unlimited choices manipulative irresponsible socially incompetent Underachiever Self-Centered Poor moral values
  • 19. A need for balance
  • 20.
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  • 23. Summary Autocratic Democratic Permissive Order w/o Freedom Order w/Freedom Freedom w/o Order Dependent Resentful Rebellious Irresponsible Manipulative Demanding Confident Responsible Capable ROBOTS MONSTER BALANCED
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  • 25. Developmental Stages of a Child Social Crisis Circle of Influence Needs Infancy (0-2 yrs) Trust vs Mistrust Mother/ Caregiver Touch Early Childhood (2-3 yrs) Autonomy vs Shame Parents/ Family Establish Control Play Age (3-5 yrs) Initiative vs Guilt Playmates/Ext. Family Security & Affection School Age (6-12 yrs) Industry vs Inferiority School Community Develop self-confidence
  • 26. Developmental Stages of a Child Social Crisis Circle of Influence Needs Adolescence 12-19 Identity vs Role Confusion Friends Allowed to develop own identity
  • 28. Personally Considered Wrong (in %) (Metro Manila) 0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 2000 2005 1992 Use forbidden drugs Cheat on boyfriend/girlfriend Sell or buy illegal drugs Take something w/o paying Sell oneself for sex Stay away from school/work Drunk driving Avoid paying taxes Marital infidelity Divorce/separation Look at porn material Hazing Cheat in school Use violence
  • 29. Personally Considered Wrong (in %) cont’d (Metro Manila) 0 10 20 30 40 50 60 70 80 90 100 2000 2005 1992 Smoke cigarettes Use sexually explicit language Sell porn material Pre-marital sex Gambling Phone/internet sex Getting drunk Race a car or motorbike Abortion Homosexual relationship Use a prostitute
  • 30. Brain Development Maturation Occurs from Back to Front of the Brain Images of Brain Development in Healthy Youth (Ages 5 – 20) Blue represents maturing of brain areas Copyright © 2004 The National Academy of Sciences, USA Gogtay, N., Giedd, J.N., et al. (2004) Dynamic mapping of human cortical development during childhood through early adulthood Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 101 (21), 8174 – 8179
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  • 41. Summary Find the UNIQUENESS “katangian” Acknowledge the DIFFERENTNESS “kaibahan” Celebrate the SPECIALNESS “espesyal”
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  • 43. Our Greatest Treasure ... our Greatest Responsibility!
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Hinweis der Redaktion

  1. Children’s
  2. Common and Ideal
  3. Broken and separated
  4. Primary care giver OFWs
  5. Everchanging landscape – working with what they have
  6. The maturation of brain structures generally occurs from the back of the brain to the front. There are four primary brain structures from the back to the front of the brain – cerebellum, nucleus accumbens, amygdala and prefrontal cortex – that are noteworthy in terms of how their differential maturation may impact adolescent behavior. A major brain structure at the back of the brain is the cerebellum . This structure controls physical or motor coordination, and is a region that is involved in the playing of sports. The nucleus accumbens , which is responsible for motivation, and the amygdala , which identifies and controls emotion, are brain regions located more in the middle of the brain. The nucleus accumbens is responsible for how much effort the organism will expend in order to seek rewards. A developing nucleus accumbens is believed to contribute to the often-observed tendency that teenagers prefer activities that require low effort yet produce high excitement. Real-world observations may bear this out: many teenagers favor playing video-games, for example. The amygdala is responsible for integrating how to emotionally react to pleasurable and aversive experiences. It is hypothesized that a developing amygdala contributes to two behavioral effects: the tendency for adolescents to react to situations with “hot” emotions rather than more controlled and “cool” emotions, and the propensity for youth to mis-read neutral or inquisitive facial expressions from other individuals as a sign of anger. And one of the last brain regions to complete maturation is the structure named the prefrontal cortex , located just behind the forehead. Sometimes referred to as “the seat of sober second thought,” it is the area of the brain responsible for the complex processing of information, ranging from making judgments, to controlling impulses, foreseeing the consequences of ones’ actions, and setting goals and plans. A developing prefrontal cortex may contribute to poor judgment and risk taking.. Slide Copyright © 2008 The Mentor Foundation The Developing Brain, Adolescence and Vulnerability to Drug Abuse
  7. Lets review the implications of this range of information presented here. A normal and healthy adolescent can be expected to exhibit some risk-taking, show less than optimal judgment, and have difficulty managing emotions. Adolescents may make decisions that are too often based on how he or she feels rather than on careful and reasoned thinking. Adults play an important role by using their judgment to protect teenagers. And do not minimize the potential for young people to fall victim to drugs, particularly alcohol. Drug use can be dangerous! Slide Copyright © 2008 The Mentor Foundation The Developing Brain, Adolescence and Vulnerability to Drug Abuse