This document discusses the crisis facing women and physicians regarding hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and menopause. It notes that volcanic studies like the Women's Health Initiative have spread wrong information about HRT, scaring women and doctors about side effects like breast cancer. As a result, many women give up HRT and suffer from vasomotor symptoms, while doctors fail to persuade them to continue HRT due to its benefits outweighing risks. The document will focus on HRT and breast cancer, reasons for doctors' failed persuasion, and lessons learned from menopausal women over 40 years.