1. January 2nd, 2012 Published by: nivomediagroup
the indispensable thing in their lives. It’s all a losing battle for the
The History of the Mistress mistress and the lover. Love is all about commitment. So, if he can
cheat on his wife, he will definitely cheat on you more. It’s not about
If the love boat is indeed just for two people; then why have an love in the whole parody of things. It’s about the excitement and the
extra seat? Why is it so hard to be faithful to one? And why are lust. Sad but reality bites the whole time.
married men temptingly attractive? So many questions arise from the
complications of having a mistress. Three is said to be a crowd; a love
triangle that causes pain and confusion for all. This is a sickening
scenario that makes some people doubt about tying the knot or the
whole institution of marriage; and its relevance as well.
The Other Women in Focus:
Women are skilled temptress. Love is an intoxicating drink; which
lures you into being hooked with someone else even if you are already
committed. Is it all about love really? Or is it about excitement and the
whole thrill of avoiding getting caught and hiding which makes sexual
rendezvous so addictive. Or is it about financial security? She is the
other woman, the slut and the whore, the snake temptress, the kept
woman, the seductress, the home-wrecker, the villainess, and the
fancy woman; among other names. The mistress has been a salient
part of humanity and culture. They have been very visible dating
back to biblical times with King Solomon having 700 wives and 300
concubines or breeders; to Europe’s royal mistresses, and Chinese
concubines. There are famous mistresses of all time; like Marilyn
Monroe who had an intricate affair with John F. Kennedy; Nell
Gwyne who is the mistress of King Charles II, Mademe de Pompadour
who is then the kept woman of King Louis XV, and Camilla Parker
Bowles who is the notorious mistress of King Charles. History indeed
has a rich lineage of mistresses who make the history increasingly
enigmatic and overwhelming.
Why Men Cheat?
They are condemned in the society as being the filthy women who
steal other women’s husbands. They are seen as the uneducated and
desperate women who want to tie a man up for financial reasons. It
takes two to tango though; and men also have a large share into this
anomalous sex conspiracy. They have a share in wrecking their own
relationships. Why do men engage in illicit affairs? Some men would
reveal that they are in for the ride not because of love; but for the thrill
of something new. To others; it’s the variety of sexual partners that
make it all so exciting. Some men long for friendship and a diversion
of their routine; more like a hobby I guess. Sometimes men are not
that adult in thinking; they are a bunch of kids who want more toys
to play with.
The Lover’s Promise:
Men sometimes would lure women into staying as their mistresses by
promising things; one of which is that they will eventually leave their
wives for them so they could be together forever. Well, it sounds too
cheesy to be a real-life happy ever after thing for mistresses because
according to statistics and studies; it is very rare that men leave their
wives and kids to be with their mistresses. Reality is, they find the
whole situation very convenient. They have their wives and kids,
the permanence, love, and security of a home; and the mistress for
pleasurable sex diversion and fun.
Reality Bites!
Bottom-line is; they do have the best of both worlds. So, they will
never leave their wives or ruin their families for any mistress; if
they can keep them both. They know for a fact that mistresses can
be replaced or even added upon but wives and their kids will be
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