Cosmic Awareness 1978-43: At What Age Should The First Sexual Contact Begin?
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: ' Is It A Violatio n
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(Suggestions From the Cosmic View-point )
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A long question here fromR . ''In.
several questions, Aw aren.ess has spoken.
1;;,,Iptjtes . .* s
on sex.ual mores and euggested somewha t
s fr how to assess what. is appcoprLate in
sexual conduct . Rowever, I an sure many
would a .i.preciate greater elucidation of what constitutes prorrd .scuity, and if any form.
of sexual which does not coercion of others is inappropriate and un-
neccessary under cosmic. laws? Specifically, now coming into publie attention are th e
inst,aneee of incest, often involving young children, and adults which have legal co n
trel aver the destiny of these progenies . Also„ eases of bestie .lity, wde.rf.n a huslan
being is sexually involved with mammals, this occurring more commonly than has bee n
supposed by the masses, especially among farmers, farm hands etc . Awarenes s
therefore please indicate whether what is called 'incest ' involving sexuality betwee n
adults, say brothers and sisters or sons and mothers and . fathers and daughters, wher e
all are adults, is according with cosmic law or not, and whethe.r relations betwee n
children and adult :3, where the child is net coerced, is appropriate . Pleese als o
indicate what age. any font) of sexual contact with others may be appropriate, a s
Edgar Cayce indicated sexual feelings begin as about three to five years of age wit h
most children, aad clearly at what is called 'pubescence' these eac .- rgies are presen t
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and clamoring expression in almost . all young people . In addition, the matter o f
pre .raiseuisy, whether promiscuity in terms of bein .;; :; a violation of coemic 1.a is
simultaneeus sr:tallow se .tual relations w. .Cil several persotis, or whether this is rapid.
divereement of several mates with.out there being any depth in any oF these etc .
Pleaee, therefore irldiesate if Chore . i .e aay violation of eosmic law in poligamy ,
2olyand .ey, rapid marriage and successive.. divorce, child sex, incest without force ,
bestiality, etc . ”
2. COSMIC AWARENES S
This Awareness indicates that in a cosmic level, sex itself Is not the basi s
for karmic laws .
This Awareness indicates that which is a basis is that which considers the right s
and freedoms and the violation of others who would deny these rights and freedoms .
This Awareness indicates that entities who violate others indeed are transgressin g
karmic and cosmic laws .
This Awareness indicates that a violation occurs not only when an entity object s
to a transgression, but also when an entity does not have the capacity for under -
standing and realizing that they have been transgressed . This Awareness indicate s
that violation of entities by those who understand and are keeping the entity fro m
experiencing their full potential as a human being by robbing them of certain oppor-
tunities for understanding, for growth, for experience that will allow them to hav e
greater discerning abilities as to how they would choose to express themselves ; thi s
kind of violation. is that which indeed brings about karmic repercussions upon th e
perpetrator .
Incest and Bestiality
This Awareness suggests that entities who violate those innocents and turn an
innocent child into one who is filled with misunderstanding, doubt, confusion, and
feelings of guilt ; this kind of violation does ineed create a karmic relationship a s
well as creating a karmic situation for each of the entities to overcome .
This Awareness suggests that wherein an entity engages in expression of a sexua l
nature related unto bestiality, that entity, in effect, violates himself er hersel f
more than the beast involved, for the beast is ignorant and is unable to have th e
opportunity for evaluating the situation ; whereas the entity is ignoring evaluatio n
or proper research into the activity's justification .
This Awareness indicates the greater karma relates unto the pattern which is es t -
ablished within the mind and emotions of the entity involved in this action, for the
pattern will remain as a thorn or as a programming or as an energy which create s
certain feelings and behavioral expressions or guilt or a disruption of proper self -
esteem within the entity for many years after the event .
This Awareness indicates that this can also create a social stigma if this i s
exposed, which can also have its karmic repurcussions upon the entity . Awarenes s
indicates that in terms of incest, that the entities involved, particularly wherei n
there is an innocence in the consciousness of one principal involved, this kind o f
relationship is that which is detrimental more on a psychological level than in term s
of actual morality of a spiritual kind .
This Awareness indicates that essentially, the violation is not the act itself ,
but rather the insensitivity, lack of concern for the welfare of the entity involved ,
and. the total lack of self-awareness, and the surrender to forces of lust and appet-
ite are obviously detrimental to healthy, psychological growth of the partie s
involved .
This Awareness suggests that the majority of incest relationships between parent :,
and child are of a shallow and thoughtless level at their beginning, but leave dee p
psychological scars, particularly upon the child, and often upon the adult, whic h
create many problems in later years in other relationships .
This Awareness indicates this is the tragedy, rather than some abstract spiritua l
or cosmic morality regarding sex .
This Awareness indicates the expression which violates another, either through
enforced violation or violation due to the naivete or misunderstanding by one party ,
or by both parties ; that ignorance and the lack of clear responsibility for th e
expressions, this is the error involved .
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3. This Awareness suggests that this question may be re-examined and furthe r
questions asked if the answer has not been fully covered and clarified .
PROMISCUITY & INCEST BETWEEN ADULT S
Question : (The Difference Between Love & Sex )
The area•of rapid remarriage and shallow relationships with a number of partner s
and incest between adults, like brothers and sisters :
COSMIC AWARENESS :
This Awareness indicates that essentially, ( 5,
the sexual union between entities as being r,
capable of the deepest form of communic-- `ha
ation, the most intimate form of coimnunic- (
ation, and the most meaningful form of /
communication possible, but only when that /
communication is automatically evolved fro m
other, more sensitive forms of communicatio n
es a foundation, such as the foundation an d
communication based upon lcve and harmony MI
between entities which eventually expresses f i /41P'
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itself in this manner .
This Awareness indicates that it is not necessary for entities to have sexua l
relation ;, in order to love one another, nor does sexual relations in any way prov e
er even indicte the possibility that entities love one another .
This Awareness indicates that love and sex are two different things : that lov e
is n energy which passes between entities as concern and sensitivity and consider-
ation for that other entity, whereas sex can be nothing other than mere persona l
gratification, unless it is expressed with that same concern, consideration and sen-
sitivity toward that other entity .
This Awareness indicates also that entities can express themselves in a losin g
mennen for the show of love in order to participate in the more intimate expression ;
yet this is not truly love, but is rather an act, a performance .
Mir; Awareness suggests that this as expressing and reflecting the shallowness c r
tic entity's development ; yet this Awareness does not condemn these entities, fo r
entities are only capable of expressing true love when they are capable of expressin g
true lcve . This Awareness indicates that even those who have the shallow moments o f
eapress ;on which appear as the droplets of love, the hints of love, the facade o f
love ., the shallow relationship which reflects the possibility of love ; even thos e
relationships are necessary for some entities in their path toward becoming mor e
sensitive and aware of others . And even though many entities must pretend to expres s
l- e, ;fcr they are incapable of true love), even that pretension does assist thos e
entities '.n unloosening and unlocking certain aspects within their consciousness that :
can eventually lead to deeper and more meaningful expressions of love .
This Awareness suggests that entities not judge others for where they are, no t
condemn others, but to be aware of their expressions, being aware of their depth o f
feeling, their shallowness or depth of experiencing, and in that awareness, discer a
hcw you desire to relate with these entities .
This Awareness suggests that each time an entity establishes a relationship wit h
mother, a certain level of karmic pattern begins to form around that relationship ;
end as that relationship is reinforced with further activities, that karmic p atter n
, ;relys and builds . This Awareness indicates that karmic relationship pattern may b e
beneficial, may be harmful, or may be a both beneficial and harmfu l
qualities for the entities involved . This may reflect both positive and negativ e
h nna, or one or the other .
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4. This Awareness indicates each time an entity has a sexual relationship wit h
another, the karmic pattern between these entities builds at a much more rapid pace ; -
this being approximately ten tines faster than the mere contact verbal and socia l
type of relationship .
This Awareness indicates the sexual intercourse as approximately te n. times mor e
intense than the social intercourse . This Awareness suggests that these types of in -
tercourse creating the karmic patterns upon that relationship will leave either heal -
ing factors, or scars and wounds, or a combination of both .
This Awareness suggests that many entities, ;reeking to heal their wounds, mov e
from one entity to another, seeking karmic patterns and 'ripping of f ' or takin g
energies from those entities through social or sexual relationships to heal thei r
own feelings of inadequacy . And these entities, while perhaps healing certain level s
of inadequacy, certain psychological wounds, are, at the same time, often creatin g
even greater problems on a different level which they must later pay penance for t o
those or to others who have given to serve their desires .
This Awareness indicates this relates to the L a 9f Gratitude . This Awarenes s
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AT EAT AGE
SHOULD THE FIRST
SEXUAL CONTACT BEGIN ?
Question :
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a J' also indicate what age any form of sexual contact with other s
may be appropriate? As Edgar Cayce indicated, the sexua l
l :ice , feelings begin at about 3 to 5 rudimentally in most children ,
and clearly at what is called pubescence, these energies ar e
present and clamoring for expression in almost all youn g
people? '
COSMIC AWARENESS :
This Awareness indicates this actual and contact as being
effected by the culture and by the maturity of the persons involved .
This Awareness indicates in some cultures, an entity of twelve to fifteen ma y
appear to be quite responsible and capable of participating in this type of energy .
This Awareness indicates, in other cultures, entities of thirty, forty, fifty, sixt y
or older are not responsible or capable of handling the responsibility for thei r
sexual expression .
This Awareness indicates appropriateness is a matter o f . responsi,eness, the abilit y
to be responsive to the ramifications of one ' s expression .
THE PROBLEM OF PEDOPHILI A
Question :
While we ' re on this subject, I ' ll ask a question by Y .C ., who is confined in a
hospital for sexual rehabilitation . This entity has written a number of times ver y
lengthy letters . He is an admitted pedophile . (I'm not exactly sure what that is) . I n
his letters, he has endeavored to communicate with us his feelings on this and he i s
incarcerated and supposedly being treated ; but evidently this is a chronic, compulsiv e
thing with him, and now he is confined in a hospital for a long period . In the en d
of his letter, he says : " P O S . Just to see what Awareness would say about this, I woul d
like to have Awareness asked, during one of Paul Shockley's trances, how I . and othe r
pedophiles should he handled and treated . The answer Awareness gives may be interest -
ing to others, as well as myself . Awareness has, in the past, covered rape, criminal s ,
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prisons, teen-age sex and many other things, but so far ` (6. .
as I know, Awareness has not been specifically asked toil', ; i
comment on homosexuals, perverts and pedophiles (or :a'1d.J'
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pedophilia),d be inter ested to know Its commen - 's `r
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, haven't yet read what Awareness said about it . "
COSMIC AWARENESS : ,l
This Awareness indicates that the mos t
appropriate means for dealing with any of thes e
anti-social types of behavior, particularly those relatin g
unto sexual maladies, is through returning to the sourc e
of the problem, such as moving backwards in time to tha t
experience which created the traumatic knot or confusion ; ,;
that which the scientologists call the ingram, the trauma,'
which later influenced the different set of values and
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appetites of the erktity . s7 ' 1
This Awareness indicates, for example, often a n
entity in one lifetime may have extremely high 4'°x
standards against sexual expression, and the standard s
being so significant to the entity that when the entity ,
in any manner or degree whatsoever, allows the sexua l
energies to sway his or her control over those energies ,
the entity becomes guilt-ridden and self-destructive and It
hostile to him or herself .
This Awareness indicates that on occasion suc h
entities may live long years of their life using all o f
their will-power available to overcome the inner forces o f
the sexual currents ; and in so doing, may create a kind o f
psychic imbalance that, in a following life, can erupt i n
a type of licentiousness as an . interruption and breakin g
through and overcoming of that will which held those force s
in check for so long .
This Awareness indicates that this particularly when the entity has dual conflict s
within and creates such a significance against the expression that the entity
dwells continuously upon the imaginative expression which he or she abhors . Thi s
I Awareness suggests that this duality of the mind, opposed and yet dwelling upo n
that which one is opposed to, is that which. creates a kind of psychic schizo-
phrenia, or sexual schizophrenia, that allows the energies to remain in chec k
for some duration, only to be unleashed and uncontrolled at another time i n
another place, perhaps even in another lifetime, into an action of extreme
1 opposite to that which was held in the time previousl y .
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This'Awareness indicates the balancing of these energies, the reconciliat-
ion, as that which needs to be achieved ; and this can only be achieve d
when the energies are looked at clearly, without condemnation or judgment ,
and when these energies are understood .
This Awareness suggests that often the entity who is sexually perverted ,
(in the common vernacular of that term), often that entity has very high stand-
ards on other levels and is actually afraid, or feels galley about having norma l
sexual relationships ; and these guilt feelings drive the entity into supressin g
those sexual urges . And that supression of those urges, drives the entity into a
perverted expression such as homosexuality, incest, or other types of expression .
This Awareness indicates often entities having incest are truly desirous o f
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6. having a clear and harmonious relationship with others, but have such fear of tha t
type of sexual relationship, feeling guilty and unworthy of that type of relation -
ship, and such entities often will choose or be urged by those sexual feelings int o
a relationship with someone with whom they are familiar and can feel that they woul d
not lose the relationship, or friendship, with that person, such as one who is re-
lated and cannot become unrelated to the entity .
This Awareness indicates this not always the case in terms of incest, for som e
entities are so shallow that they do not care whether the other is related or not ,
have no feelings of guilt or of restriction, nor do they wish to refrain from sexua l
expression . Some entities simply are shallow in their sensitivity to others, in thei r
understanding of other's rights and are flaunting society in a form of rebelliou s
hostility, both toward society ' s rules and conventions and also seeking gratificat-
ion without concern for the welfare of others .
This Awareness indicates as quite common, and as having a rather shallow leve l
of consciousness wherein there are few meaningful values in their life other tha n
self-aggrandizement, gratification and personal promotion .
Question :
Would this particular entity who sent in this question benefit from the study o f
the Dianetics of Ron Hubbard who developed the ingram principle, or the actual treat-
ment by that type of thing help cure this man of his pedophila? He realizes tha t
psychologists and psychiatrists can help, but they're not doing it .
COSMIC AWARENESS :
This Awareness indicates this as being beneficial . That this also can be helpe d
even more by deep past life recall and hypnosis levels wherein the entity . moves in t o
his own deeper frustrations, phobias, fears, guilts and memories, and brings thes e
up for examination by those qualified and trained to recognize the implication : o f
such experiences and feelings and relate those to the present situation ; such a s
trained psychiatrists, psychologists, or others of a deep understanding of the huma n
psyche .
Question. :
Would deep hypnosis, taking the entity back through his own birth into a previou s
lifetime, could the problem be uncovered and then brought forth back through hi s
consciousness where he could take a look at it today ?
COSMIC AWARENESS:
This Awareness indicates this in the affirmative .
DEALING WITH SEXUAL PROBLEMS IN THE NEW AG E
(Awareness and Counseling, Not Imprisonment )
Question :
A final question on this from E .R . "Awareness seems to hint the sex force an d
sexual exchange may constitute a legitimate human need as opposed to desire or want .
Please indicate if this may be considered a need in terms of all the other necessit-
ies of life, like water or raiment, and if so, is society obligated in a true demo-
cracy to provide the socialization leading to sexual exchanges between those inter-
ested in the future new government etc ., and it is obligated to find partners fo r
those whose karma or astrology may be shunned by the opposite sex and would neve r
marry or engage in sexuality under the present system of socialization ?
COSMIC AWARENESS :
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7. This Awareness indicates this as in a general sense, this as being in the afiiri m
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etive . This Awareness indicates that the taboo against sex down through the ages a s
that which once had a valid purpose : basically that which related unto the variou
social codes whereby entities failed to fulfil their responsibilities toward one
. This Awarenes s
another except by the laws which governed the tribes or their nations
indicates this as still having some valid effect and meaning .
This Awareness indicates that the use of birth contro l : and the use of variou s
techaiqu .cs for avoiding childbirth and avoiding disease as having made the tabo o
against sex less of a social purpose and more of a psychological disturbance .
This Awareness indicates that there is still a great need for entities to hav e
a deep respect for the sexual conmiunication between entities, for this is not some -
thing that should be taken lightly unless entities do not mind having warped values .
This Awareness suggests that the sexual union of entities as that which is th e
deepest and most meaningful of unions when used properly . This Awareness indicate s
that the complete unity and communication between entities as being necessary befor e
the culmination is expressed in terms of sexual unity .
This Awareness suggests that when done otherwise, the action is no less than tha t
of animalistic expression . This Awareness suggests that even this, however, is no t
thet which needs to be considered as evil, but rather that which can lead to pattern s
of thinking and patterns of relationship which bring about a karmic situation for th e
.tictpants to experience and to need to overcome in future times .
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This awareness suggests that in terms of society assisting entities to mov e
though. their sexual problems, that in the future there will be places wherein ent-
ities may go to have communion . with one another, wherein entities may come togethe r
to get acquainted and wherein they may be counseled in relationship and in behav-
ior towards one another, even though this counseling and this relationship and beh-
avior may lead eventually to the sexual union with a guide and counselor assistin g
those entities in their relationship .
Thic Awareness indicates this as that which will be used to assist entities wh o
are having difficulty in coping with such energies . This Awareness indicates wherei n
entities are capable of overcoming the difficulties in levels of passion, that thi s
will eliminate many of the crimes in society .
This Awareness suggests that wherein a society does not have a police force, th e
two : major causes of crime are lust and greed . This Awareness indicates that wherei n
ell cf the physical needs--food, shelter, clothing, travel and health are supplied ,
wherein these forces are supplied which would eliminate the greed motive, that a
pert of the society and the crimes which would evolve from that greed motive wil l
he eliminated .
Counseling For Crimes of Lus t
Under the Unified States of Awarenes s
This Awareness suggests that in terms of the lust crimes, the crimes of lust ,
eaat there must also be in the society a form of counseling and assistance whereb y
such entities experiencing those passions of lust may have a place, a way, and a n
opportunity to express themselves, their needs, and to be counseled and assisted b y
professionals in this expression . This Awareness indicates that this not tc be a n
encouragement or an exploitation of the use of sex or prostitutes for sexual purposes ,
but rather as an action whereby entities may move through those disturbing level s
and rove toward more healthy attitudes . .
Th.i . Awareness suggests that this as something which shall be occurring in th e
eocie'tles within twenty years, that these two great causes of crime, (greed and lust )
can be eliminated .
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8. CONCERNING.0MOSEXUAhIl l
(Excerpt from a reading given in 1963 )
Ralph Dishy, Trance-Interprete r
Question :
We would like to know something of the causative factors of homosexualit y
and how it affects a person ' s progress?
COSMIC AWARENESS:
Homosexuality has two levels . In reference to its causative nature, first o f
all there is a karmic problem :
Those people who have made fun of people who are homosexuals, those peopl e
who have pointed a finger at those who have been of this nature--they ar e
sometimes rewarded in after-life, at least for a period of time, by bein g
in exactly the same position as those whom they have disgraced, or who m
they have used disadvantageously . This karmic relationship in reference t o
homosexuality is very important, but there is another problem . That proble m
is not conditioning, as people sometimes believe ; homosexuality is not a
conditioned attitude, but there are certain problems which arise in referenc e
to sexual hurdles p eople make in psycho-sexual development . There is a
genital stage, and after this there is a homosexual phase, and often thi s
homosexual phase is so deep in nature and so important to this individua l
that even though there are later developments along heterosexual lines ,
the strong effect of this middle phase of developing sexuality remain s
with an individual and is a positive and basic fact of one's homosexuality .
This, when linked with karmic relationships, produces homosexua l
individuals .
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ED'S Note : For more information on how sexual problems will be dealt with in the Ne ;
Age under the Unified States of Awareness, please refer to the Akashic RQc,Q booklet
Additional information on sex and sexuality may he found in the following Revelation s
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