Cyberbullying - surviving life online
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A seminar I gave at a Christian camp for teenagers in NSW about how to avoid cyberbullying, stay safe online, and what the bible says about bullying.
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- 1. bullying
- 2. any questions? write / SMS / tweet your questions and weâll try and answer them at the end of the session add #sc1011 to the tweet SMS to 0434 xxx xxx
- 3. bullying a couple of examples
- 4. Five types of bullying physical verbal social psychological cyber
- 5. Cyber-bullying: can be anonymous, and in bulk, via digital media.
- 6. introduction split into 6 groups how would you deïŹne âbullyingâ? see how youâd respond to one of the bullying scenarios summarise ïŹndings; tweet or SMS them back
- 7. where to go? Year 9-12 Boys - Auditorium Year 9-12 Girls - Waratah meeting Year 7-8 Boys - Waratah seminar Year 7-8 Girls - Banksia meeting Post-school men - Boronia Post-school women - Banksia seminar
- 8. what did we come up with? deïŹnition of bullying
- 9. Bullying One person has more power than the other.
- 10. Bullying Repeated actions over time
- 11. Bullying Designed to cause the other person harm in some way.
- 12. What does the Bible say about bullying?
- 13. Peacemakers Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. Matthew 5:9
- 14. Live at peace with everyone If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. Romans 12:18
- 15. when Iâm bullied, is it just âdiscipline from Godâ? Heb 12:7 It is for discipline that you have to endure. God is treating you as sons. For what son is there whom his father does not discipline?
- 16. Strive for peace with everyone Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. Heb 12:14
- 17. Wisdom from God is peace-able 17 But the wisdom from above is ïŹrst pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. 18 And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace. James 3:17-18
- 18. A Christian leader canât be a bully 1 Tim 3:3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. Titus 1:7 For an overseer, as Godâs steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain,
- 19. what does a peacemaker do? not bullying others acting to stop bullying when you see it.
- 20. Cyberbullying
- 21. why are there bullies? people become bullies to get recognition and status with other people. cyber bullies donât see the effect their bullying is having on their victim, so it can escalate much quicker than other types of bullying
- 22. social online bullies friends sites games SMS blogs phone you chat & IM email the web facebook family strangers
- 23. social online bullies friends sites games SMS blogs phone you chat & IM email the web facebook family strangers
- 24. social online bullies friends sites games SMS blogs phone you chat & IM email the web facebook family strangers
- 25. social online bullies friends sites games SMS blogs phone you chat & IM email the web facebook family strangers
- 26. Preventing cyber-bullying keeping your personal information private keep your computer safe from viruses understand what youâre sharing have a strong password and donât share it
- 27. a password is like a toothbrush Once youâve shared it, you should never use it again.
- 28. a strong password letters, numbers, characters make it memorable to you, but hard to guess donât write it anywhere donât use the same password for every site
- 29. privacy settings Know your options Set them the way you want.
- 30. facebook
- 31. facebook privacy settings understanding how information is shared on FB how much can a casual user who isnât your friend ïŹnd out about you? if you can understand the privacy settings on facebook, you can understand anything.
- 32. account settings
- 33. privacy homepage
- 35. proïŹle picture
- 36. relationships
- 41. privacy homepage
- 44. block lists
- 45. deactivate
- 47. removing a post
- 48. ïŹnding you on fb
- 50. SMS
- 51. SMS bullying unwelcome messages sexting passing notes secretly harrassment threats
- 52. keeping yourself safe online have an internet curfew - say, 10pm keep your home computer in a public space invite your parents to monitor your internet access (this is a good way to avoid temptation) want to keep a diary? keep one on paper.
- 53. keeping yourself safe online donât mention these kinds of details online your school any other groups you belong to your address, or any other place youâre going to be donât invite people you donât know to meet you ofïŹine donât lie about your age to join facebook before youâre 13.
- 54. what to do when you see cyberbullying tell an adult you trust leave the area (maybe get a new account) donât respond to the remarks online record the message block the person advise the relevant people (the site, your ISP or police)
- 55. what to do about physical bullying know the bullying policy at the place youâre being bullied get away from the situation report it to the relevant authority
- 56. what to do about social bullying know what it looks like donât participate donât ignore it have the courage to talk to the bully, and let them know that their behaviour is unacceptable
- 57. what to do when you see bullying if you feel conïŹdent, try and stop whatâs happening report the bullying to the relevant authority provide whatever comfort you can to the person being bullied. if you say nothing, you leave the victim with the impression that you approve of the bullying.
- 58. Something surprising a class where there are multiple people being bullied is better for everyone than one where only one person is bullied (Salmivalli, 2010) when only one person is bullied, they assume itâs some fault of theirs that is the issue. when multiple people are bullied, itâs easier to see that it is the bullies that are to blame, not the victims
- 59. everyone suffers from bullying victims of bullying often suffer long-term changes to their thinking bullies are more likely to go on to be violent (and in trouble with the police) later in life people witnessing bullying will be anxious, wondering when theyâll be next
- 60. oh... and it may be illegal NSW law means that acts of cyberbullying may be breaking a number of laws. repeated SMS may be considered stalking social media sites may be considered unlawful use of a âwire serviceâ thereâs even a special law for school-based cyber bullying if youâre bullying someone because of race or sexuality, there are libel and viliïŹcation laws that could be broken.
- 61. Summary Christians should be peace-makers Know how to recognise and resolve bullying Know how to keep yourself safe online
- 62. and weâre done. David Phillips twitter: @cafedave http://cafedave.net/
Hinweis der Redaktion
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- 7:35-7:50\n(examples from my life)\n\nCyberbullying tends to peak around 13-14yo. An angry sibling could use your fb password to offend all your friends in one hit! \nNetalert study 2007: 16% of 13-17yo have been bullied online. Aust covert bullying study 2009: 10% of years 4-7. \nUpcoming study: 20% of 12-18yo have been victims of cyber bullying, 13% have bullied. Girls and boys c-bully at equivalent rates. \nOnly 7% of those bullied tell a parent, 10% a teacher, 60% a friend. Worried that if they tell, they will lose their online devices.\n
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- http://www.communicatejesus.com/2010/06/so-many-ways-to-communicate/\nvia\nhttp://www.communicatejesus.com/2010/07/resources-how-to-protect-our-children-online/\n\n
- 7:30-7:45pm\n
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- 8:40-8:55\n
- http://www.graphicshunt.com/images/cat_bullying_another_cat-14332.htm\n
- http://www.graphicshunt.com/images/cat_bullying_another_cat-14332.htm\n
- http://www.graphicshunt.com/images/cat_bullying_another_cat-14332.htm\n
- 7:55-8:25 Main Session\nhttp://www.wesleychapel.org/OurMinistries/WesleyWednesdays/Weswedclassdetailinfo/tabid/119/Default.aspx\n
- image found via http://kottke.org/10/11/birds-still-angry\n
- http://www.flickr.com/photos/alicepopkorn/4883065712/\n
- http://www.flickr.com/photos/duaneschoon/3935553091/\nbeing bullied doesn’t mean that God has abandoned you.\ngoing through a time of suffering can strengthen your character, but this doesn’t mean you need to put up with bullying.\n\n
- http://www.flickr.com/photos/pmtorrone/23362393/\n\n
- Wisdom from God is about making peace - the reward of people living God’s way is that they get along. \nBullying gets in the way of this.\nhttp://www.flickr.com/photos/florin_mogos/2523984446/\n\n
- http://www.flickr.com/photos/andrewrennie/5207163798/\n\nIf you’re violent or a bully, you can’t be a leader.\nIf you see a Christian leader involved in bullying, this is something that will need to be resolved.\n
- http://www.flickr.com/photos/trixer/3531445744/sizes/l/in/photostream/\n
- http://highdefinitionphotosandwallpapers.blogspot.com/2010/12/hd-tron-legacy-hd-tron-legacy-pictures.html\n\n
- It’s seeking something good in a destructive way.\n\n
- Your digital life has touchpoints when you go to any number of places, or devices\n
- When the people you have contact with are family and friends, your digital life is a safe, encouraging place.\n
- but it only takes a little bit of bullying before it starts to feel like a hostile, unpleasant place\n
- Worse, strangers with bad intentions can use the information that they find from your digital life to find you in real life.\n
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- http://www.flickr.com/photos/ektogamat/2952129288/\n\nAn angry sibling could use your password to offend all your siblings in 10 minutes!\n
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- http://au.reachout.com/find/articles/cyberbullying\n
- http://st-eutychus.com/2010/visualising-facebook-friendships-around-the-globe/\nhttp://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=469716398919&id=9445547199\n\n
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- Some people go so far as to deactivate their FB profile when they’re not logged in. This is extreme, but would work to avoid a lot of potential cyberbullying attacks.\n
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- http://www.flickr.com/photos/catmachine/3826156707/sizes/o/in/photostream/\nthis was drawn in 1974\n
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- Bullying and the peer group: A review Christina Salmivalli ⁎\nAggression and Violent Behavior 15 (2010), pp112-120\nChristina Salmivalli\n\nhttp://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=PublicationURL&_tockey=%23TOC%236059%232010%23999849997%231619119%23FLA%23&_cdi=6059&_pubType=J&_auth=y&_acct=C000050221&_version=1&_urlVersion=0&_userid=10&md5=6b146d2d95e39b07e71f3bdd6acae4a5\n\n
- http://www.bullying.com.au/school-bullying/\nhttp://www.ncab.org.au/Page.aspx?ID=92\n\n
- http://eprints.qut.edu.au/31602/1/c31602.pdf\nhttp://www.caslon.com.au/stalkingnote.htm\nhttp://www.caslon.com.au/cyberbullyingnote6.htm\n\nhttp://au.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100603030044AAfuwHY\n
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