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NATIONAL FORUM JOURNAL OF COUNSELING AND ADDICTION
                               VOLUME 1, NUMBER 1, 2012


                                Male Sexual Addiction

                                 LaVelle Hendricks, EdD
                                    Assistant Professor
                 Department of Psychology, Counseling, and Special Education
                         College of Education and Human Services
                             Texas A&M University-Commerce
                                       Commerce, TX


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                                           Abstract

For years the question of whether sexual addiction can be considered an actual “addiction” has
been the focus of many discussions among psychological practitioners. Licensed Marriage &
Family Therapist, Sharon O’Hara states that in order for a behavior to be considered an addiction
it must be certain elements present such as: unable to stop the behavior despite negative
consequences, presence of a mood-altered state, strong element of denial, behavior is chronic and
escalating because of tolerance, and occurrence of withdrawal symptoms (2004). Despite many
people claiming to be addicted to sex, an actual diagnosis has been slow to come. However, the
American Psychiatric Association (APA) is currently working on including sexual addiction as
an actual disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM).
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         More frequently related to men than to women, sexual addiction exhibits some of the
same signs and symptoms as other addictions, such as those with drug and alcohol. And just as
with drug and alcohol addiction, treatment is available. Sexual addiction is the term used to
describe a person’s overwhelming desire to have sex. Other names used for sexual addiction
include: hypersexuality, erotomania, perversion, and sexual obsession. It is important to make
clear the difference between simply enjoying sex and having an unusual intense sex drive or
obsession with sex. A person addicted to sex spends long periods of time in sexual related
activities. Like drug and alcohol addicts, sex addicts often use their vice as a means to escape
other problems such as stress, anxiety and depression (Kennard, 2006).
         Nevertheless, this means of escape sometimes leads an individual to more serious
problems involving illegal activities. With sexual addiction being most common in males, the
majority of criminal cases involving sex, such as exhibitionism (exposing oneself in public),
sexual assault, or obscene phone calls, are committed by men. Most sex addicts, like other
people dealing with addiction, deny they have a problem and make excuses for their behavior
(Bridges, 2010).
         Despite the many who claim they are addicted to sex, there is no definite answer as to
why or how sexual addiction occurs. There are several theories as to why an individual becomes
addicted to sex. Some experts state that sexual addiction is related to a biochemical abnormality
in the brain. Other theories claim sexual addiction may be caused due to “psychological and


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emotional difficulties, personality disorders, as a form of coping mechanism, a result of
childhood trauma” (Kennard, 2006, p. 1). Researchers have found that individuals who are
addicted to sex often come from dysfunctional families and are more likely to have been abused
by a family member or someone known to the family. A considerable number of sex addicts
going through treatment report some form of addiction among members of their family.
        Like with drugs and alcohol, sex addiction does not discriminate. Studies have found that
sexual addiction happens more often in men than in women, but it does not differentiate between
the rich or the poor, race or religion. We may not hear about sex addiction in our local
communities, but if you turn on the television or turn to the entertainment section of the
newspaper, you may hear or read about celebrities, male celebrities, going into treatment for
sexual addiction. It may not be reported on as often as drugs or alcohol, but it does get reported.
        Mara Betsch of Health Magazine describes sexual addiction as “compulsive sexual
thoughts and acts” (n.d., para. 1). She goes on to explain that people with sexual addiction have
an “inability to control sexual behavior, even when it’s risky or harmful” (para. 1). Betsch’s
article focuses on celebrities who have either admitted to having a sex addiction or whose
newsworthy actions have been the result of sexually related activity. All of Betsch’s subjects are
male celebrities. In 2008, actor David Duchovny admitted to having a sex addiction and entered
rehabilitation for treatment as did R&B singer Eric Benet. However, Benet never admitted that
the treatment was for sex addiction. Other male celebrities who have admitted to having a sex
addiction include actor and comedian Russell Brand and rapper/singer/producer Kanye West.
One of the most recent cases of possible sex addiction is that of Tiger Woods. Although Woods
did not admit he was addicted to sex, he did reportedly check into a clinic for sex addiction
treatment (Betsch, n.d.).
        Recognizing the difference between a simply over active sex drive and an addiction to
sex is important. Sex addicts frequently engage in various forms of risky sexual activity and
often with multiple partners. Stephanie Brunner of Medical News Today makes clear some of the
behavior exhibited by those with sex addiction:

       Compulsive self-stimulation (masturbation)
       Multiple affairs, including extramarital affairs
       Multiple one-night stands
       Multiple sexual partners
       Persistent use of pornography
       Practicing unsafe sex
       Cybersex
       Using prostitutes
       Prostitution
       Exhibitionism
       Dating through personal adds in an obsessive way
       Watching others in a sexual way
       Sexual harassment
       Molestation
       Rape
       Detachment – the sexual activity does not satisfy the individual sexually or emotionally
LAVELLE HENDRICKS
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       Feelings of guilt and shame
       Giving up on social, work-related or recreational activities because of sexual addiction
       Sexual rage – the individual may become distressed, anxious, restless and even violent if
        unable to engage in their addiction. (2010, p. 2)

Sexual addiction, if left untreated can cause a person to feel an extreme sense of guilt and shame.
It can also cause low self-esteem, anxiety and depression. Jerry Kennard of Mens Health
Magazine explains that even though excessive sex can bring short term relief, the harm to the
psychological well-being of the addict and to their relationships means treatment is required in
order to bring the problem back into their control (2006).
         Most addicts live in denial of their addiction and treatment and recovery depends on the
person admitting to having a problem and wanting to get help. A person with sexual addiction
may not see themselves as having a problem until they experience a significant life changing
event such as loss of employment, breakup of a marriage or relationship, health crisis, or arrest.
Kennard suggest the first point of contact with seeking treatment for sex addiction is with a
family doctor or local psychiatric services who offer specialists in sexual behavior disorder.
Unlike a few years ago, today there is much more help in dealing with sex addiction. The focus
of treating sexual addiction must be on controlling the addictive behavior and helping the
individual develop a healthy sexual lifestyle. Organizations such as Sex Addicts Anonymous,
Sexaholics Anonymous, Sexual Compulsive Anonymous and Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous
are all available for those seeking help (Brunner, 2010).
         Some sexual addiction cases may require medication as part of the treatment. The
medication most frequently administered is that which is used to treat obsessive-compulsive
disorders such as Prozac and Anafranil. One particular medication used to treat male sexual
addiction is medroxyprogesterone with is an anti-androgen medication used to reduce the
biological effects of sex hormones (androgens) in men. Experts have found that a combination of
medication, education about healthy sexuality, and individual counseling is the most effective
way to treat sexual addiction.


                                           Conclusion

         While the number of people claiming to be addicted to sex continues to grow, the
American Psychiatric Association (APA) continues its research on determining whether sexual
addiction can be considered a true medical condition for an actual diagnosis. Currently the DSM-
IV has a separate chapter on Sexual Dysfunctions and Gender Dysphoria Disorders but nothing
to include sex addiction as an actual diagnosis. However, work groups for APA are currently
working on proposing Hypersexual Disorder and Paraphilic Coercive Disorder for inclusion in
Section III of the DSM-5 text in which conditions that require further research will be included.
It is clear that sexual addiction does exists and more so in men than in women. And until an
actual diagnosis for sexual addiction can be determined, sexual addicts will continue to be
diagnosed and treated for obsessive-compulsive disorders.
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                                         References

Betsch, M. (n.d.). “Celebrities and sex addiction.” Health Magazine. Retrieved from
       http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20343373,00.htm1
Bridges, D. (2010, March 12). Sexual addiction. Retrieved from
       http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sexual-addiction
Brunner, S. (2010, March 16). “What is sexual addiction (Compulsive sexual
       behavior)? What causes sexual addiction?” Medical News Today. Retrieved from
       http://medicalnewstoday.com/articles/182473.php
Kennard, J. (2006, April 8). Sexual addiction: Nymphomania hypersexuality erotomania.
       Retrieved from http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealth/a/Sexual_addiction.htm
O’Hara, S. (2004, November). “How can sexual addiction be a real addiction?” Recovery Today,
       9(11), 7.
Paraphilic disorders. (2012, April 28). Retrieved from http://dsm-5.org

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  • 1. NATIONAL FORUM JOURNAL OF COUNSELING AND ADDICTION VOLUME 1, NUMBER 1, 2012 Male Sexual Addiction LaVelle Hendricks, EdD Assistant Professor Department of Psychology, Counseling, and Special Education College of Education and Human Services Texas A&M University-Commerce Commerce, TX ______________________________________________________________________________ Abstract For years the question of whether sexual addiction can be considered an actual “addiction” has been the focus of many discussions among psychological practitioners. Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, Sharon O’Hara states that in order for a behavior to be considered an addiction it must be certain elements present such as: unable to stop the behavior despite negative consequences, presence of a mood-altered state, strong element of denial, behavior is chronic and escalating because of tolerance, and occurrence of withdrawal symptoms (2004). Despite many people claiming to be addicted to sex, an actual diagnosis has been slow to come. However, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) is currently working on including sexual addiction as an actual disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). ______________________________________________________________________________ More frequently related to men than to women, sexual addiction exhibits some of the same signs and symptoms as other addictions, such as those with drug and alcohol. And just as with drug and alcohol addiction, treatment is available. Sexual addiction is the term used to describe a person’s overwhelming desire to have sex. Other names used for sexual addiction include: hypersexuality, erotomania, perversion, and sexual obsession. It is important to make clear the difference between simply enjoying sex and having an unusual intense sex drive or obsession with sex. A person addicted to sex spends long periods of time in sexual related activities. Like drug and alcohol addicts, sex addicts often use their vice as a means to escape other problems such as stress, anxiety and depression (Kennard, 2006). Nevertheless, this means of escape sometimes leads an individual to more serious problems involving illegal activities. With sexual addiction being most common in males, the majority of criminal cases involving sex, such as exhibitionism (exposing oneself in public), sexual assault, or obscene phone calls, are committed by men. Most sex addicts, like other people dealing with addiction, deny they have a problem and make excuses for their behavior (Bridges, 2010). Despite the many who claim they are addicted to sex, there is no definite answer as to why or how sexual addiction occurs. There are several theories as to why an individual becomes addicted to sex. Some experts state that sexual addiction is related to a biochemical abnormality in the brain. Other theories claim sexual addiction may be caused due to “psychological and 1
  • 2. NATIONAL FORUM JOURNAL OF COUNSELING AND ADDICTION 2____________________________________________________________________________________________ emotional difficulties, personality disorders, as a form of coping mechanism, a result of childhood trauma” (Kennard, 2006, p. 1). Researchers have found that individuals who are addicted to sex often come from dysfunctional families and are more likely to have been abused by a family member or someone known to the family. A considerable number of sex addicts going through treatment report some form of addiction among members of their family. Like with drugs and alcohol, sex addiction does not discriminate. Studies have found that sexual addiction happens more often in men than in women, but it does not differentiate between the rich or the poor, race or religion. We may not hear about sex addiction in our local communities, but if you turn on the television or turn to the entertainment section of the newspaper, you may hear or read about celebrities, male celebrities, going into treatment for sexual addiction. It may not be reported on as often as drugs or alcohol, but it does get reported. Mara Betsch of Health Magazine describes sexual addiction as “compulsive sexual thoughts and acts” (n.d., para. 1). She goes on to explain that people with sexual addiction have an “inability to control sexual behavior, even when it’s risky or harmful” (para. 1). Betsch’s article focuses on celebrities who have either admitted to having a sex addiction or whose newsworthy actions have been the result of sexually related activity. All of Betsch’s subjects are male celebrities. In 2008, actor David Duchovny admitted to having a sex addiction and entered rehabilitation for treatment as did R&B singer Eric Benet. However, Benet never admitted that the treatment was for sex addiction. Other male celebrities who have admitted to having a sex addiction include actor and comedian Russell Brand and rapper/singer/producer Kanye West. One of the most recent cases of possible sex addiction is that of Tiger Woods. Although Woods did not admit he was addicted to sex, he did reportedly check into a clinic for sex addiction treatment (Betsch, n.d.). Recognizing the difference between a simply over active sex drive and an addiction to sex is important. Sex addicts frequently engage in various forms of risky sexual activity and often with multiple partners. Stephanie Brunner of Medical News Today makes clear some of the behavior exhibited by those with sex addiction:  Compulsive self-stimulation (masturbation)  Multiple affairs, including extramarital affairs  Multiple one-night stands  Multiple sexual partners  Persistent use of pornography  Practicing unsafe sex  Cybersex  Using prostitutes  Prostitution  Exhibitionism  Dating through personal adds in an obsessive way  Watching others in a sexual way  Sexual harassment  Molestation  Rape  Detachment – the sexual activity does not satisfy the individual sexually or emotionally
  • 3. LAVELLE HENDRICKS ____________________________________________________________________________________________3  Feelings of guilt and shame  Giving up on social, work-related or recreational activities because of sexual addiction  Sexual rage – the individual may become distressed, anxious, restless and even violent if unable to engage in their addiction. (2010, p. 2) Sexual addiction, if left untreated can cause a person to feel an extreme sense of guilt and shame. It can also cause low self-esteem, anxiety and depression. Jerry Kennard of Mens Health Magazine explains that even though excessive sex can bring short term relief, the harm to the psychological well-being of the addict and to their relationships means treatment is required in order to bring the problem back into their control (2006). Most addicts live in denial of their addiction and treatment and recovery depends on the person admitting to having a problem and wanting to get help. A person with sexual addiction may not see themselves as having a problem until they experience a significant life changing event such as loss of employment, breakup of a marriage or relationship, health crisis, or arrest. Kennard suggest the first point of contact with seeking treatment for sex addiction is with a family doctor or local psychiatric services who offer specialists in sexual behavior disorder. Unlike a few years ago, today there is much more help in dealing with sex addiction. The focus of treating sexual addiction must be on controlling the addictive behavior and helping the individual develop a healthy sexual lifestyle. Organizations such as Sex Addicts Anonymous, Sexaholics Anonymous, Sexual Compulsive Anonymous and Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous are all available for those seeking help (Brunner, 2010). Some sexual addiction cases may require medication as part of the treatment. The medication most frequently administered is that which is used to treat obsessive-compulsive disorders such as Prozac and Anafranil. One particular medication used to treat male sexual addiction is medroxyprogesterone with is an anti-androgen medication used to reduce the biological effects of sex hormones (androgens) in men. Experts have found that a combination of medication, education about healthy sexuality, and individual counseling is the most effective way to treat sexual addiction. Conclusion While the number of people claiming to be addicted to sex continues to grow, the American Psychiatric Association (APA) continues its research on determining whether sexual addiction can be considered a true medical condition for an actual diagnosis. Currently the DSM- IV has a separate chapter on Sexual Dysfunctions and Gender Dysphoria Disorders but nothing to include sex addiction as an actual diagnosis. However, work groups for APA are currently working on proposing Hypersexual Disorder and Paraphilic Coercive Disorder for inclusion in Section III of the DSM-5 text in which conditions that require further research will be included. It is clear that sexual addiction does exists and more so in men than in women. And until an actual diagnosis for sexual addiction can be determined, sexual addicts will continue to be diagnosed and treated for obsessive-compulsive disorders.
  • 4. NATIONAL FORUM JOURNAL OF COUNSELING AND ADDICTION 4____________________________________________________________________________________________ References Betsch, M. (n.d.). “Celebrities and sex addiction.” Health Magazine. Retrieved from http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20343373,00.htm1 Bridges, D. (2010, March 12). Sexual addiction. Retrieved from http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/sexual-addiction Brunner, S. (2010, March 16). “What is sexual addiction (Compulsive sexual behavior)? What causes sexual addiction?” Medical News Today. Retrieved from http://medicalnewstoday.com/articles/182473.php Kennard, J. (2006, April 8). Sexual addiction: Nymphomania hypersexuality erotomania. Retrieved from http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealth/a/Sexual_addiction.htm O’Hara, S. (2004, November). “How can sexual addiction be a real addiction?” Recovery Today, 9(11), 7. Paraphilic disorders. (2012, April 28). Retrieved from http://dsm-5.org