The Magic Of Making UP

1. ==== ==== The Magic Of Making UP http://tinyurl.com/85yue4q ==== ==== Why are the majority of us so bad at managing our relationships? Its the sad truth that the vast majority of us are really poor at relationships with a loved one. We only seem to look at what we are doing when we are trying to save our relationships. Why are we not taught to save your relationships in school? It is a fundamental act within our society to find a partner and build, hopefully, a long lasting loving relationship. But we are left to our own devises and we often make a real mess of it. In this article I want to give you my ABC to happy relationships and hopefully you will get a incite in to what makes a relationship work and help you save your relationship. Acceptance Don't try and change them, you fell in love with the person you met. This is a must. We have all been victims of this, I know I have. You need to accept their limitations. No one is perfect you need to realise this and so dose your partner. Bonding This takes time and grows as you get to know each other. You need to talk and communicate. Don't forget to listen as well as talk, talk about the good and the bad, ask questions and give compliments. Too many people just nag or have a go at their partner. Build a friendship that's the key here. Communication Stay open to your partner, listen and talk to each other. Stop judging and be fair, give chances, be flexible and be their friend. When it is your fault admit it and say sorry then move on. On the other side accept apologies and be forgiving. Don't stay focused on the negative issues life is way to short. Dependable If you say you will do something do it be dependable. I know that in life things and plans change but all things considered you can still do things you said you will do. Expectations This is one thing I find that most people are way off the mark with. They expect life and love to be

2. like it's portrayed in romantic novels or movies. The bad news it is rarely that way in real life. You need to be real about your expectations of your partner. We are only human after all and we make mistakes and mess up. People have faults and problems take time, communication and understanding on both sides to resolve. The above is only a small part of the ABC's to a successful relationship. I hope you found these useful and interesting. If you want to see the full list and more info to help you save your relationship then please visit my Squidoo page link below. I have survived relationship break-ups and I have had to save a relationship so I know where you are if your relationship is in trouble. I hope that I have give you some incite and all the best for the future. If you want to find out more about getting you EX back and repairing your relationship then please come and see my relationship rebuilding Blog for useful articles, Videos and guides to help you rebuild your relationship Many people have successfully rebuilt their relationship and know first hand that there is hope. To find out how they did this see my relationship rebuilding Blog Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Lee_Coppin ==== ==== The Magic Of Making UP http://tinyurl.com/85yue4q ==== ====