1. MARRIAGE: HOW DO I CHOOSE RIGHT?
DESIGNED & PRESENTED
BY
SCOTT ODIGIE

2. OBJECTIVE
To redefine the
“concept” and
principle of
making the right
choice in
marriage.

3. INTRODUCTION
Decision determines
marital destiny. The
choice you make is
not the
responsibility by
proxy, but privately.

4. PRINCIPLE
1. Place priority on your
relationship with God:
“House and riches are
inheritance from fathers,
but a prudent wife is from
the Lord.” Pro.19:14. do
you give priority to your
relationship with God than
„your choice in marriage.?”

5. PRINCIPLE
2. Conceptualize
your communication
style with the Holy
Spirit: “…and the
sheep hear His
voice…” Jn.10:4.

6. PRINCIPLE
3. Understand your “sexual
psychological difference”: Males
and females are different in the
following:
Emotional difference (menstrual
cycle every month).
Physical differences (muscle,
breast).
Hormonal difference (testosterone
& estrogen).

7. PRINCIPLE
4. Take off your
idols: “…and
covetousness
which is
idolatry.” Col.3:5.

8. PRINCIPLE
5. Redefine your definition
love: until you realize
what “love is not” you
may remain a victim. Love
is not sexual feeling. Love
is not having sex before
marriage.
Love is not blind. details
from 1 Cor.13:1-10

9. PRINCIPLE
6. Define your
relationship with the
opposite sex: everyone
cannot be your
husband/wife. “…this
is now bone of my
bones…” Gen.2:23.

10. PRINCIPLE
7. Associate
strategically: “He
that walk with
wise men shall be
wise…” Pro.13:20.

11. PRINCIPLE
8. Avoid been
suspicious and
defensive in
relationship: change
your ideologies and
effects from failure
experiences.

12. PRINCIPLE
9. Update and
upgrade your
knowledge base about
relationships and
marriage. “…a man of
knowledge increases
strength.” Pro.24:5

13. PRINCIPLE
10. Find a
mentor: Mordecai
mentored Esther;
Naomi mentored
Ruth etc.

14. CONCLUSION
Your decision
determines your
destiny in
marriage!