Tampa BSides - The No BS SOC (slides from April 6, 2024 talk)
Want To Text Your Ex Back Here's 3 Types Of Text Messages You ...
1. Want To Text Your Ex Back? Here's 3 Types Of Text Messages
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So you want to text your ex back? That's great and a very achievable goal if you go about it the
right way.
Text messages can be very powerful in all aspects of
relationships. They can spark love, passion, and
romance. They can create mystery and curiosity. They
can help heal past wounds. They can increase intimacy
and can even turn your ex's emotions "against them" in
a way that turns things to your advantage by opening
your ex to the idea of being with you again. Michael
Fiore refers to this as "text judo" in his step-by-step
texting guide, Text Your Ex Back.
But text messages can also be detrimental to your relationship...
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They can be used for "sexting" and sending naked pictures which isn't always a bad thing, but
which can also lead to some extremely traumatizing and embarrassing situations when you
participate in these kinds of activities with someone you eventually break up with. As they say,
"What happens in Vegas ends up on Facebook", somewhere else on the internet, or passed
around until they eventually reach your grandmother.
The wrong types of text messages can also start fights, make you appear needy or desperate,
make you seem boring and uninteresting, and push your ex away for good.
So how do you send the right texts and avoid the wrong ones?
Here are 3 types of text messages you should never send if you want to text your ex back into
your life.
1.) The "Nothing Text"
"Yo." "What's up? " "Hey." These are all examples of nothing texts. In Text Your Ex Back, Michael
Fiore explains them as being anything that sounds like it's coming from a 19 year old frat boy. If
2. it's monosyllabic and doesn't do anything to enhance the conversation, then it's probably a
nothing text.
And just why are nothing texts bad when you want to text your ex back? Because they usually
end up like this...
You..."Yo."Your ex..."Hey."You..."What's up?"Your ex..."Not much."You...stumped on where to go
from here.
And then you and your ex go into this weird stale mate and feel even more awkward with each
other.
2.) The "Needy Text"
The needy text often sounds something like this...
These types of texts make you seem really insecure. They show you lack confidence. They make
your ex feel like you're "up in their business". And who wants to be with someone like that?
3.) The "Begging And Pleading" Text
When you want to text your ex back, the "begging and pleading" text needs to be avoided at all
costs. Here are some good examples...
These types of text messages make you come across as desperate. Before you send texts like
this, always remember you WANT your ex back in your life, but you don't NEED your ex back in
your life. When your ex sees you are ok without them, that's when they'll fear losing you for good
and will start wanting you back.
Steer clear of these types of messages and you'll have a much better chance of getting your ex
back, especially if you learn more about the best tips and techniques for texting your ex after a
breakup.
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