1. Healthy
Relationships
Fe brua ry 1 1 ,
201 3
Co nflic t Re -
So lutio n

2. PURPOSE
Divorcing the past to advance into the
future.

3. “IFW AR F
E E OCUS D ON TH F
E E UTUR , W H
E E AVE
NO TIM TO F IR W
E L T ITHTH P T.”
E AS

4. CONF ICT
L
Conflict begins and ends with US as INDIVIDUAL . We
, S
have E NTIR L TOO M
EY ANY AR GUM NTSW IN
E ITH
OUR E VE . These AR
SL S GUM NTSdon’t allow us to hear and
E
TR T ANYONEW O ISATTE P
US H M TING TO GUIDEUSIN
TH R T DIR CTION.
E IGH E
OURFUTURE TH P T
E AS

5. Going to the show.

6. Do you hear strange voices at times?
The v o ic e o f the p a s t is the v o ic e o f F IL
AM IA-R ITY; A tim e s
t
the
v o ic e o f the p a s t is lo ud e r tha n the v o ic e o f the future
be c a us e we
like to be c o m fo rta ble a nd d o wha t fe e ls g o o d to us .
E verything
that tastes good is not good for us.

7. When m m changes, m will
y ind y
and emotions will change.
M M ~ W AT I TH
y ind H INK
M W ~ W AT I W
y ill H ANT
M E otions ~ H
y m OWI F E
EL

8. R OL
e-S UTION
• A Re-Solution is an issue TH H AL E
AT AS R ADY B E S VE B
E N OL D Y
S E
OM ONEE S .
LE
This is a problem that has already been solved by someone
else.
Someone taught us how to solve the problem therefore
when we
encounter this S Eproblem it must be re-solved by us.
AM
A two year old does not know TH ANS E to this problem
E WR
nor
does he understand why this problem needs to be R -
E

9. Been There, Done That.

10. W isdom K W do not have to think about
ey: e
problem or issues that have already been solved
s
by OTH R .
ES

11. S m
um ary
• Co nflic t be g ins a nd e nd s with US a s INDIVIDUAL .
, S
• ARe -So lutio n is a n is s ue TH H AL E
AT AS R ADY B E S VE BE N OL D Y
S E
OM ONEE S . LE
• The v o ic e o f the p a s t is the v o ic e o f F IL
AM IA-RITY; At tim the
es
• voice of the past is louder than the voice of the future.
• Whe n m y m ind c ha ng e s , m y will a nd e m o tio ns will c ha ng e .