Talk delivered at a UK Health and Service Conference to enable, equip and empower leaders and business owners to deliver results in tough changing times.
11. Write for biggest sales magazines in
UK and Internationally
I’ve personally managed stakeholders
across 17 industries and 42 countries
Recently helped a Dutch company
grow two of their key customers
from $152,000 into $1.9 million in 8
months
12. The aim of this talk is to give you more
options when it comes to persuading others
13. What is persuasion
How and why does it work?
How to activate it – 7 keys
Power of collaboration
AGENDA
The future and action plans
14. …process aimed at changing a person
(s) or groups attitude or behaviour
toward some event, idea, object or
other person by using written or
spoken words to convey information
feelings, reasoning or a combination of
them…
15. When persuading you are an agent of
CHANGE
What is the change you’re looking to bring about?
17. What if you could
be as influential
and persuasive as
a global brand?
18. • Better results more often
Benefits of being a
more persuasive
person
• Better equipped to help others
• Increase your influence
• Deepen your confidence
• Raise your profile
19. Everyday influencing
and persuading
What skills, tools, strategies and
techniques do you have already?
Talking your way out of a parking ticket
Getting some cash from a friend
Persuading someone to go to your holiday preference
Getting your Husband to take you out for dinner
20. ‘If the only tool
you’ve got is a
hammer, you’ll
treat everything
as if it’s a nail’
Abraham Maslow
21. People are different – and
require different strategies
Some like lots of detail
Others just want bullet points
Some need facts and evidence
Others just have to be excited
And so on
22. • Show genuine interest
Benefits of being a
more persuasive
person
• Be present
• Be confident
• Be friendly
• Build trust…
Persuading the
impossible
person!
23. • Show genuine interest
Benefits of being a
more persuasive
person
• Be present
• Be confident
• Be friendly
• Build trust…
We cant just speak loudly more often
35. Options for doing research
3 things that precede
successful persuasion
See their world & listen to their words
Acknowledge their concerns
Share the outcome
36. Put yourself in their shoes
What’s important to them?
What are their criteria?
What is their ‘hot button’?
To persuade others
your ideas need to match
their needs and desires
37.
38.
39. One of the biggest
barriers to
persuasion is the
unspoken risk and
external conditions
that often drive our
decisions
40. Our goal
Sooth the voice of
internal risk and
increase the
confidence of
external expectation
41. Towards Away From
40% 40%20%
Toward getting,
having and achieving
Away From problems,
hassle and danger
GAIN
PLEASURE
LOSS
PAIN
We all have Motivation
Preferences
61. • Look to help others
Using Reciprocation
• Express where there is mutuality
• Get person/group involved
• Ask for commitment
• Ask for their opinion
62. How can you use
Reciprocation
to influence and persuade
others?
64. Many feel a sense of duty
to those in authority
regardless of position or
seniority. The influence of
authority is limited only
by your ability to meet or
manage the expectations
of others needs
65. • know their expectations of you
Using Authority
• Be accountable
• Be consistent
• Ask for their commitments
-Make it based on their role
66. How can you implement
Authority
to influence and persuade
others?
68. Think like Groupon, if its urgent and important
make it known and make it time specific
69.
70. • Assess what’s most important and why
Using Scarcity and Urgency
• Know what the roles of other should be and why
• Be clear and make it time specific based on their role
• Demonstrate your commitment of working together
• Ask for their commitment…
71. How can you use
Scarcity and urgency
to influence and persuade
others?
75. • Take interest in what drives people internally
Using commitment and
consistency
• Are those values aligned with you or your organisation
• Find one you can resonate with
• Promote it
• Ask for their commitment based on it
76. How can you use
Commitment and
Consistency
to influence and persuade
others?
79. people working together to
create greater value for
everyone, in order to achieve a
recognised common goal
80.
81. One of the biggest
barriers to a sale is
the unspoken risk that
a prospect gives
Its often the case many are working
towards the same goal and bearing the
work load alone. WHY?
82. Being Collaborative Exercise
List as many skills or qualities your
nearest practice has that could benefit
your practice now
What one action could you do right now
that would move you closer to achieving
a key goal for your practice
83. Commit to engage with each other
Listen and communicate often
Focus on the result and common goal
Promote openness & take responsibility
84.
85. Work harder on yourself than
you do your job… You’ll discover
a person you never knew and
the potential of a job you’ve
always had