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Carla, he will never change. The only solution is to leave him, break off all contact except
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1. By Jeni Mawter
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2. Narcissistic Victim Syndrome is not a medically recognized syndrome…
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3. Often, you don’t realize you are a victim …
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5. Can you spot the person with a Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD)?
6. Because the NPD goes undetected in the home, school, work-place, organizations, and social settings
your plight is not recognized. http://shaikhhashim.blogspot.com.au/2011/12/alone-wallpaper.html
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7. People with NPD have an inflated sense of self-importance, see themselves as perfect and will attack
anyone who tries to put a chink in that "flawless" image. They exhibit grandiose, self-centered, egotistical
patterns of behavior that can cause a lot of psychological trauma to those around them.
http://www.ehow.com/how_5508911_heal-narcissistic-abuse.html
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8. They require constant attention and admiration and often use others selfishly for their own ends. When
criticized, they react with blaming, insults and put downs, causing the subjects of their rage to feel
rejected, hurt, humiliated and powerless. They also distort reality, often contradicting themselves, lying or
denying events of the past to make themselves look better. They make us doubt what we know and
wonder whether we're the crazy ones. http://www.ehow.com/how_5508911_heal-narcissistic-abuse.html
9. Abuse is a pattern of behaviour used to establish power and control over another person.
http://www.lsh.me/What-is-Domestic-violence-.html
10. Victims often display a set, or cluster, of symptoms due to: physical mental emotional spiritual sexual
11. http://www.accpc.ca/rtr-resources-cd-emo_abuse.htm
12. http://fatalparade.deviantart.com/art/Caught-in- a-Web-49655807
13. Victims need help
14. Victims need help http://4.bp.blogspot.com/yTdToRMB3RE/TmSlw4U1TaI/AAAAAAAAA8E/S9SD5LBtkO4/s1600/terrified_face_by_graphic_jayd36ebeq.jpg
15. When you know something feels wrong …
16. Narcissistic Personality Disorder abuse http://guidescroll.com/2011/10/stellar-impact-tacticalmaneuvers-list-for-ship-combat/
17. Yet victims don’t know … www.abc.net.au
18. http://www.mobygames.com/game/windows/lone-survivor/screenshots/gameShotId,555880/
19. Narcissistic supply comes from public attention such as fame, celebrity, notoriety, or infamy or private
attention such as admiration, flattery, acclaim, fear, or even repulsion.
http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m23uoznilI1r7dpi1o1 _400.png
20. Anything that acts as a status symbol that attracts attention and admiration for the narcissist is
narcissistic supply, for example, a flashy car, expensive property, designer clothes, being a member of a
church, cult, club, or a business. http://clentonfarquharson.co.uk/2011/07/
21. NPDs believe they are superior and entitled. They are envious and exploitative, controllin g and
manipulating others without empathy, guilt or remorse. www.meaningfulmama.com
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7. 22. http://familialramblings.com/excuses/ http://rlv.zcache.com.a u/smiley_brain_i_tell_lie s_printrec42706f3d25459d94849 110a766178d_wad_8byvr _512.jpg http://rlv.zcahe.com.au
23. As a child, a healthy self- esteem (true self) did not develop in the Narcissistic Personality Disordered
so they built up defences to create a ‘false self’ in public. This is akin to wearing a public mask.
http://baconstrip.deviantart.com/art/dr-jekyll-and-mr-hyde- 10308371
24. http://www.wattpad.com/15066665-backstabbing-best-friend#.Ufn1QhYzmlI
25. Wearing the mask is not only emotionally exhausting, it also means that the NPD is constantly on
guard at being found out. They become overly sensitive to narcissistic injury which is any perceived threat
(real or imagined) to the NPD’s self-esteem or self- worth. http://philsphil.wordpress.com/tag/narcissisticrage/
26. - Narcissistic abuse is insidious because the abuse is covert, cunning and indirect. - Narcissists go to
great pains to avoid being observed publicly as being abusive. - The Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde behaviour
creates fear, distress, confusion, inner turmoil, and chaos for the victim. - The constant ‘walking on
eggshells’ and attempting to avoid further conflict can be crippling.
27. Victims are constantly being tested
28. NPDs are constantly pretending. It is impossible to know what is false and what is real.
29. For a person with Narcissistic Personality Disorder ‘Love’ is false
30. People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder do not accept responsibility for themselves. As such,
they can’t apologize.
31. They justify cruelty as ‘honesty’
32. For whatever the reason you entered the Dance of the Narcissist (a behaviour known as
Codependency) so that in the dance there was: 1) a pleaser/fixer (victim); 2) a taker/controller
(narcissist/addict); 3) and an enabler (supporter). www.writemybrainsout.wordpress.com
33. In Narcissistic Victim Syndrome you are looking for a cluster of symptoms to emerge, many are the
symptoms of trauma: avoidance behaviour, loss of interest, feeling detached, sense of a limited future,
sleeping or eating difficulties, irritability, hyper- vigilance, easily startled, flashbacks, hopelessness,
psychoso matic illnesses, self-harming, thoughts of suicide etc.
34. NPD abuse victims express feelings of humiliation and shame, and apt to self- blame. You have
learned to take responsibility for the narcissist’s behaviour because you are constantly told the problem is
your fault. www.great-terriblebeauty.tumblr.com
35. Some victims develop Stockholm Syndrome and want to support, defend, and love the abuser despite
what they have gone through. www.theibanker.com
36. Victims may ‘dissociate’ or detach from their emotions, body, or surroundings. Living in a war zone
where all forms of power and control are used against you (intimidation; emotional, physical and mental
abuse; isolation, economic abuse, sexual abuse, coercion, control etc), the threat of abuse is always
present. Dissociation is an automatic coping mechanism against overwhelming stress.
37. Victims are often victimized by more than one person. They often internalize that something is wrong
with them, that they deserve this kind of abuse, and then resign themselves to their fate.
38. Victims of narcissistic abuse often appear uncertain of themselves, constantly seeking clarification that
they haven’t made a mistake or misheard something. Confidence may be so low that they have trouble
making simple decisions. They will not be aware that this is caused by an abusive technique called
‘gaslighting’.
39. Gaslighting is a technique of psychological abuse used by NPDs to instil confusion and anxiety in
their victim to the point where they no longer trust their own memory, perception or judgment. With

8. gaslighting, the victim initially notices that something happens that is odd, but they don’t believe it. This
moves to defence as the victim fights against the manipulation.
40. Confusion sets in after incessant comments such as: ‘You’re too sensitive’, ‘You’re crazy’, ‘You’re
imagining things’ or ‘I never said that.’ Gradually, the victim cannot trust their own perceptions and doubt
themselves. This often leads to depression. www.fanpop.com
41. Broken and unable to trust themselves, they isolate themselves further. The victim now doubts
everything about themselves, their thoughts and opinions, their ideas and ideals. They become codependent on the abuser for their reality. http://fullofbeautifullybrokenthings.wordpress.com/tag/i solation/
42. You feel you deserve it You get used to the abuse
43. You hope things will change. You’re tired.
44. - Victims need validation and education about what has happened to them. - They need information
about Narcissistic Personality Disorder and its toxicity in relationships. - They need education about how
they have contributed to their situation through co-dependence. - They need therapy to deal with
symptoms.
45. Appropriate support in: 1)Education – schools 2)Legal – law courts 3)Medical – health practitioners
4)Business – workplace 5)Religion - 6)Family - members
46. One of their greatest challenges may come from not being believed by significant others, either
because these others have not seen the private face of the narcissist or because they themselves are in the
narcissist’s thrall. http://www.datpiff.com/Markey-Mcfly-No-One-Believes-Me-mixtape.300713.html
47. Another challenge is denial. A victims can’t see that the NDP aspects of their life is all wrong. Victims
don’t want to face the fact that someone they have a relationship with, is an enemy.
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48. http://vidablogg.files.wordpress.com/2013/02/wpid-531-have-you-ever-been-hurt2.jpg
49. http://kootation.com
50. www.uscpublicdiplomacy.org
51. www.shinystarlight.tumblr.com
52. http://media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/62/27/66/622766d188b6c19efa2e78836ea1d763.jpg
53. Please share these other links on Narcissistic Personality Disorder
http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/red- flags-to-narcissistic-personality-disorder- compiled-by-jenimawter http://www.slideshare.net/jenimawter/movi ng-on-from-narcissistic-abuse-compiled-by- jenimawter
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