4. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.10 Independence
Women want to know that a man can take
care of himself. They want a guy who is
capable and independent, able to make his
own decisions, pay his rent, and cook dinner
for himself.
Despite what you might think, no woman
wants to be your mother. One of the top 10
things women want is to know that you are
capable of carrying your own weight in a
relationship. A guy who is in constant need of
reassurance, companionship, help,
motivation, and advice is a turnoff.
5. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.9 Looks
Women are called the fairer sex for a reason.
They’re much, much better looking than we are,
what with our sharp angles, our hairy backs and
our doughy centers. It is truly one of their great
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virtues that women are willing to spend so much
time in our company despite our undeniably
simian appearance.
Women care about looks too. Thus, it wouldn’t
hurt to at least try to minimize the degree to which
you remind them of a monkey. Women aren’t
asking for much. Try to keep yourself well-groomed.
Wear clothes that fit, and at least make an effort
to keep yourself in shape.
6. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.8 Positivity
Cynicism and sarcasm have their place,
but nobody wants to be with
someone who is sarcastic and
cynical all of the time. It’s exhausting.
By contrast, being in the presence of
someone with a positive outlook on
life can actually be energizing.
An optimistic person makes others
feel good; his optimism can be
contagious, even inspiring.
7. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.7 Communication Skills
Women place a priority on guys they can talk to,
who can express themselves and who are at least
willing to listen to them when they talk about their
concerns, hopes and desires.
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You should also know that the communication skill
that trumps all others is the ability to be attentive.
Sometimes, all a woman needs you to do is listen.
This is hard for us guys, because we’re very
“action-oriented.” We think of every conversation
as a prelude to some necessary action (otherwise,
why talk?), but that’s not always the case.
8. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.6 Sociability
A woman wants a guy who can carry
on a conversation with her coworkers
at a dinner party and also has the
good sense not to swear in front of
her mother.
Women want a guy with a high social
IQ. They don’t want a wallflower or
the strong silent type.
9. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.5 Intelligence
Many women find smarts as sexy as
physical appearance. For some of us,
this can be frustrating, because, let’s
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face it, we’d all like to be smarter, and
at one time or another we’ve all felt
like the dumbest guy in the room.
Avoid running your mouth on subjects
you know nothing about.
10. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.4 Passion
The reasons should be pretty obvious. If a
woman is thinking about spending any time
with you, she’d like to know that she can look
forward to adventure, excitement,
commitment, devotion, and great sex. Thus, if
a guy wants to be wanted, he has to show a
woman he’s passionate.
Be passionate about something a little
serious, like your job or a humanitarian cause
instead of just baseball and hamburgers.
11. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.3 Sense Of Humor
We all know how much more fun
funny people are than dull, grumpy
people. Now this does not mean you
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need to be “the life of the party.” A
good sense of humor just means you
know how to tell and take a joke.
12. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.2 Ambition
Men too often think that all women care
about is money, but that’s nonsense. Sure it
may be true of some women, just as it’s true
of some men, but women aren’t
characteristically attracted to rich guys. The
reason women gravitate toward men with
successful careers isn’t because of the size of
their paychecks, but rather because their
success at work is indicative of certain
attractive personality traits: commitment,
discipline, strong work ethic -- all of which are
things that will likely make a guy a good
partner.
13. Mr. & Mrs. Right
Top Ten things women
want in a man:
No.1 Confidence
Maybe you’re a smart, sociable guy with a great
sense of humor, but you could use some help in
the ambition department. Maybe you’re a great-
looking guy with expert communication skills, but
you’ve yet to find the one thing you’re really
passionate about. Here’s the good
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news: Confidence is the one thing women
consistently say they want in a man.
Confidence is king. That means even if you can’t
categorize yourself as “the total package,” as long
as you feel good about what you have to offer, and
as long as you’re comfortable with yourself, you
have a shot.
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Now what does a man
want in a women?
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Discussion Questions:
1 – What do you think your Mr. or Mrs. Right is looking for?
2 – Do you believe in soul mates? Why or why not?
3 – What are some things that men or women do that annoy you?
4 – What are some things that you can not stand in a relationship?
5 – How do you know if you are “in love” or just “infatuated”?
6 – What are some things that really turn you on?
7 – Should you make compromises when in a relationship? When?
8 – How “equal” should a relationship be? Who is really the boss?
9 – Are you a Mr. or Mrs. Right? Why do you think so? What do you
have to offer?
