Teenagers around the world use technology to keep in touch. But what are the rules? And who in the family decides what is okay? Ericsson ConsumerLab conducted an online study of 2000 US teenagers, aged 13-17, to find out.
The study found that even if children have more say in how to use technology, parents are still much involved in how and when their young teenagers are using computers, mobile phones and Facebook. Facebook and "how to use the computer" are the two things parents seem to have strict rules about, especially for those aged 13-14. Around 30 percent of parents typically make the decisions for their children at this age.
2. Teenagers have more
say in how and when to
use technology than
who to socialize with
There are few parents who let their children decide entirely who they can socialize with,
even at the age of 17. Meeting friends in real life seems to create more concerns than
meeting friends online.
When it comes to technology, children have more say
Even if children have more say in how to use
technology, parents are still much involved in how
and when their young teenagers are using computers,
mobile phones and Facebook. Facebook and “how to
use the computer” are the two things parents seem to
have strict rules about, especially for those aged 13-14.
Around 30 percent of parents typically make the decision
for their children at this age.
Parents decide completely
Both decides
Decide completely yourself
Parents mostly decide
Decide mostly yourself
Source: Ericsson ConsumerLab On-line study 2011 with 2000 US teenagers 13-17 years old.
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20%
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13 14 15 16 17
Socialize with
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13 14 15 16 17
Mobile phones
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40%
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13 14 15 16 17
Computer
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13 14 15 16 17
Facebook
3. Age and parenting style matters
The parents’ decision-making for their teenagers is a
combination of their consideration of the child’s age and
their parenting style. By understanding the parenting
style, we can also predict how decisions are made about
technology usage.
Apparently something happens when children turn 16,
as many more of them can make their own decisions at
that age. Most parents let go of full control at this age,
except for the more authoritarian parents, who retain
their say in all age groups.
Ericsson ConsumerLab has translated the teenagers’ view into a model
built on Maccoby and Martin’s theory of family styles.
Source: Ericsson ConsumerLab On-line study 2011 with 2000 US teenagers 13-17 years old.
Noticeably, the majority of teenagers and parents jointly
decide things (democratic parenting style). And there is
hardly any difference in how the parents make decisions
for the different genders.
Five parenting styles seen
from the teenagers’ view
Authoritarian – The parents have strict rules, with
limitations on not only how to use certain devices
but also where you can use them. (9%)
Directive – These parents are demanding but also
responsive. (14%)
Democratic – Their decision-making process is
more participatory and more inclusive. The parents
and children decide together. (50%)
Permissive – Allow considerable self-regulation,
and avoid confrontation. The children decide a lot
themselves. (15%)
Low involvement – These parents are low in both
responsiveness and demands. The children make
their own decisions. (12%)
Authoritarian
Low
involvement
Demanding
Undemanding
Responsive Unresponsive
Democratic
Permissive
Directive