Griff Griffiths, director, Cocomotion Visit the CharityComms website to view slides from our past events, see what events we have coming up and to check out what else we do. http://www.charitycomms.org.uk

1. Griff Griffiths
Cocomotion
How to win friends and influence people
CharityComms Making the Case for Comms

2. So how do YOU show up?
"80% of life is just showing up"
being present

3. exercise 1
presence

4. Something to try later...
What can you do to be fully present?
cognitively
emotionally
physically

5. being collaborative

6. Compete
Collaborate
Compromise
Accommodate
Avoid
Cooperativeness ->
Assertiveness ->
Thomas-Kilmann model

7. exercise 2
behaviour in conflict situations

8. Something to try later...
Take the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) -it's quick and simple
Explore ways of using your non-preferred approaches to conflict

9. Hello?
being systemic
influencing in an uncertain
and emergent world

10. uncertainty& emergence
exercise 3

11. Influencing in an
uncertain world
what patterns
can I see?
what do the patterns
mean for me?
which patterns do I want
to change?
what next action
will I take
to change them?

12. Seeing patterns
Generalisations: In general I noticed _____.
Exceptions: In general I noticed _____, but sometimes, I saw _____.
Contradictions: On one hand, I saw _____; but on the other hand I saw _____.
Surprises: I was surprised by _____.
Curiosities: I wonder _____.
Something to try later...

13. questions? support? don't panic!
griff@cocomotion.org

14. Visit the CharityCommswebsite to view slides from our past events, see what events we have coming up and to check out what else we do. www.charitycomms.org.uk

15. Workshop
22 October 2014
London
#CaseForComms
Making the case for comms: unlocking the purse strings